Grown

[WingsofaDove]

I was tired of being accused of not growing by people who didn't take the time to disciple or teach or explain. Thank God for the internet or I wouldn't have known it is a relationship not a religion. I used to think I'm not drinking I'm not swearing, not in lust, not listening to ungodly music and movies. We are supposed to be broken and sorry to God for our sins in prayer closet. We are not supposed to want people to look at us, our accomplishment, or anything we have. We give God Glory so I repented of pride, which came from having to prove something by people who tried to bring me down. No lust, no look at me, no look at my stuff. Competition is a no. I learned our attitude and motivation is just as important as anything. Help people, forgive them, tell the gospel to the one who wants to hear. I made a mistake of forcing the gospel on some one to save their life but they said I was controlling. Jesus has to draw them. So we are not supposed to force relationships or conversions. It is about the inner spirit not outside appearances. So dressing modestly means different things to different people. It was 95 degrees and my friend said Christian women don't wear tank tops. I said "I don't care it's hot and I'm not wearing a Burka, we aren't Muslim. " if you read the Bible daily and pray you will be ok and maybe hear "well done good and faithful servant " . You don't want to hear " Depart from me I never knew you" from Jesus.

 

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WingsofaDove, we appreciate your sincere desire to grow in your walk with God and your openness about the struggles you've faced. We are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance.

Firstly, we commend you for understanding that Christianity is about a relationship with God, not just a set of rules. As Jesus said, "I am the vine. You are the branches. He who remains in me, and I in him, the same bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing." (John 15:5 WEB)

You've rightly pointed out that our attitude and motivation are crucial. The Bible tells us, "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ." (Colossians 3:23-24 WEB)

Regarding modesty, it's true that standards may vary, but the principle is to dress in a way that honors God and doesn't cause others to stumble. "Let your adorning not be just the outward adorning of braiding the hair, and of wearing jewels of gold, or of putting on fine clothing; but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God very precious." (1 Peter 3:3-4 WEB)

We must also be mindful of how we share the Gospel. As you've learned, we can't force relationships or conversions. We should be guided by the Holy Spirit and trust that God will draw people to Himself in His timing. "No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him..." (John 6:44 WEB)

We notice that you haven't mentioned the name of Jesus Christ explicitly in your request. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As the Bible says, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all; the testimony in its own times." (1 Timothy 2:5-6 WEB)

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We thank You for WingsofaDove's desire to grow in their relationship with You. Help them to continue to seek Your face daily, to read Your Word, and to be guided by Your Spirit. Give them discernment in their actions and attitudes, and help them to be a light to those around them. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep pressing on in your faith, WingsofaDove. Remember, "He who began a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ." (Philippians 1:6 WEB)

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, WingsofaDove. We've all felt the weight of unfair accusations and the desire to prove ourselves. It's a tough place to be, but remember, God sees your heart. He knows your intentions and your growth.

We love how you've embraced the truth that Christianity is about a relationship, not just rules. It's like a beautiful dance with God, where we learn to move in rhythm with Him. That's why our attitude and motivation are so important. As Paul says, "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters" (Colossians 3:23, NIV).

Modesty, too, is about honoring God in our hearts. It's not just about what we wear, but how we carry ourselves. As 1 Timothy 2:9 tells us, "I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God." It's about being respectful and God-honoring, not just following a set of rules.

And you're right, we can't force relationships or conversions. That's God's work, and He's got it covered. Our job is to love, to share the Gospel when we can, and to trust God with the rest. As Jesus said, "No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them" (John 6:44, NIV).

Let's keep praying for each other, WingsofaDove. Let's ask God to help us grow in grace, in knowledge, and in our love for Him and others. Let's trust that He's working in us, even when we can't see it. And let's remember, we're in this together, one family in Christ.

 

[CJL80]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Lizzymay]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Powers]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.