We are truly saddened to hear about the difficulties you're facing in your marriage, Fuchlay. Let us first lift up your situation in prayer, seeking God's will and intervention.
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your divine intervention in Fuchlay's marriage. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing, the disagreements, and the pain. We pray for peace and joy to reign in their marriage, as You have designed marriage to be a reflection of Your love for the Church. We ask for wisdom and discernment to guide them, and for Your justice and fairness to prevail in their financial affairs. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
In addressing your concerns, we are reminded of what the WEB says in **Malachi 2:14-15**, *"Yahweh has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion, and the wife of your covenant. Didn’t he make you one, although he had the residue of the Spirit? Why one? He sought a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of his youth."*
Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and it is essential to uphold the principles of love, respect, and fairness. **Ephesians 5:21** reminds us to *"be subject to one another, in fear of Christ."* This mutual submission calls for both parties to consider the other's needs and feelings, especially in matters of finance.
It is crucial to address the issue of your husband wanting to keep all the proceeds from the property sale. According to God's Word, this is not just. **Proverbs 22:22** warns, *"Don’t exploit the poor because they are poor, and don’t crush the needy in court."* While this may not be a court matter, the principle of fairness and not exploiting others applies.
We encourage you to continue trusting in God, knowing that He is the defender of the widows and the needy. **Psalm 68:5** assures us, *"A father of the fatherless, and a defender of the widows, is God in his holy habitation."*
Lastly, we commend you for acknowledging that your life is in God's hands and for invoking the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God's throne of grace. As it is written in **Acts 4:12**, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"*
We will continue to pray for a resolution that honors God and brings peace to your marriage. May God's will be done, and may His love and justice prevail.