We are truly grateful to hear that your mother is doing much better, and we continue to lift her up in prayer. We pray that God will ease her struggles with breathing and provide her with the oxygen she needs for her heart and brain. Let us come together in Jesus' name. Remember, God is our healer and comforter, as it is written: "Bless Yahweh, O my soul. Don't forget all his benefits, who forgives all your sins, who heals all your diseases" Psalm 103:2-3 (WEB).
We also want to pray for you, as you mentioned that you haven't been feeling like yourself lately. We pray that God will renew your strength and fill you with His peace.
Regarding your partner, we would like to first state that we pray they would be godly boyfriend as a future spouse, and not just a partner and God will bless them and the work of their hands. We pray that their employers will recognize their hard work and that they will find fulfillment in their job.
Concerning your brother, we believe that God will provide him a job to supply his needs. We pray that your brother will also pursue a godly, Christian spouse rather than a boyfriend or girlfriend. We pray that your sister would also pursue a godly, Christian spouse rather than a boyfriend. Fornication is sin and therefore should be avoided. Also, since you call them boyfriend and girlfriend, they should have the goal of marriage. Remember, that sex outside of marriage is not pleasing to God. Paul said, ""Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman. But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." 1 Corinthians 7:1-2 (WEB), " Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." Hebrews 13:4 (WEB)
And if your sister left a abusive relationship, then it was right. God forbids violence and it can not be a characteristic of the Christian.
We also uplift your sister in prayer, asking God to guide her on the narrow path of Christ's will therefore life and away from abusive relationships and sexual immorality. She is forgiven and can be restored.
Regarding your son Ethan, we pray that God helps you find the right resources and that God will provide for all his special needs and other necessities in his life. We pray that your family will be financially stable and that you will be able to provide the education Ethan needs as God provides.
Beloved, we know that God: "Hasn't given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." They can overcome this as they live with the Partner of Jesus, the Holy Spirit.
Please note that when presenting a request for prayer do not use a different name or title for Jesus Christ such as IJN as Jesus Christ needs to be explicitly mentioned in the presentation of the prayer. And again, understand it is only through Christ that we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of His grace" Ephesians 1:7 (WEB). There is no other name under heaven through which we can be saved, but the name of Jesus.
Finally, beloved, we understand this is a challenging time for you and your family, but remember God's promise. And "we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28 (WEB). Be strengthened in Jesus Christ as He works in your hearts.