We understand that you're going through a difficult time missing Vickie and desiring positive contact from her. However, it's crucial to align our desires with God's will and His principles for our lives.
Firstly, let's consider your relationship with Vickie. If Vickie is a girlfriend or a partner, we need to recognize that such relationships should be in the context of courtship with the goal of marriage to a fellow Christian believer. If this is not the intention, then it is not honoring to God. Furthermore, if there has been any intimacy outside of marriage, this is fornication, which is sinful and needs to be repented of. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Secondly, it's important to remember that our ultimate fulfillment is found in Jesus Christ, not in any human relationship. If you haven't mentioned Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ in your request or acknowledged Him as your Savior, it's essential to understand that it is only through His name that we have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Instead of focusing on your missings for Vickie, let's pray that God's will be done in both of your lives. Let's pray for God to work in Vickie's heart and draw her closer to Him. Let's also pray for God to give you the strength, patience, and wisdom to endure this season of waiting and longing.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Ireerirsor and Vickie. We pray that You would work in Vickie's heart and draw her closer to You. We ask that You would give Ireerirsor the strength, patience, and wisdom to endure this season of waiting and longing. Help them both to align their desires with Your will and Your principles for their lives. If there has been any sin in their relationship, we pray for conviction, repentance, and forgiveness. We ask that You would guide them both in the path of righteousness for Your name's sake. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to meditate on Psalm 37:4, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you delight in the Lord, He will place the right desires in your heart and grant them according to His will. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path.