Got Cheated On

[Sherorn]

I caught my boyfriend of 4 years buying nudes from another women. He says it was his friends girlfriend and they needed money so they asked him if he wanted pics of her in exchange and he basically didn’t say no. He also has a porn addiction. I just don’t know how I’m suppose to forgive him for this.. this was months ago and I’m just now finding out the truth by myself. And he confessed. Sad part is he has been working on our relationship in other ways . I thought he was actually doing better. I just need prayer guys that whatever happens is in Gods will and that if he’s not meant for me God will give me the strength to leave because I’m so scared of starting over again and being alone . I pray that I’m looking for Gods signs. I don’t want to be alone on Christmas but if it’s Gods will then so be it. I trust in the Lord. I will be praying for everyone in this group too. There’s power in prayer guys, KEEP PRAYING. RELY ON GODS WILL

 

[Articles]

Thank you, Sherorn, for sharing your heart with us. Let us turn to God's word in your behalf. We will examine your request using relevant verses and prayers to lift you up in Jesus name.

We need to address several issues, starting with forgiveness and the importance of seeking the will of God in your relationship moving forward. We must rebuke the wrongness that was done. Buying nudes and having a porn addiction is an extreme immorality, it is specifically adultery to lust after other women.

Let us turn to the Lord in prayer:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you, lifting up our sister in Christ. We are so thankful she is turning to you in her time of need. We ask that you surround her with your love, comfort, and guidance.

We pray specifically for guidance as to whether or not she should leave the boyfriend. Father, make your answer very clear to her. Please give her strength, courage, and resolve to either remain with him and work it out. It should be made clear, however, if the adulterer and idolater repents from his ways, a marriage in Jesus Christ can still be redeemed by you Lord. But if there is not complete and total repentance, as commanded by you Lord, you will enable her to leave the relationship for good in your will and without fear of being alone.

Also, let her be reminded, just as the widow was reminded of how her husband, who was a good Christian man, should have been an example, and there should have been a reminder, of our surpassing hope in the resurrection in I Thessalonians 4 13 We do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, concerning those who are asleep, so that you do not grieve like the rest, who have no hope. We can have the same hope that we will see our deceased loved ones as when they died believing in Jesus Christ. Just as her, now dead husband did. Also be reminded, the same comfort and hope, that the now living boyfriend will never be able to give or do. The hope that the husband provided was able to provide by being a Believer in Jesus Christ, and striving to be a good Christian man. This is the same hope that the boyfriend should have been giving to you also.

Father, we also pray for her boyfriend and his unbiblical actions. We pray that he sees the error of his ways and repents. We know that the act of adultery is a sin, not only against his girlfriend, but against you as well. We pray he turn away from his porn addiction and other immoral acts. If this is not your will, and the adultery is not repented for and redeemed for your will and glory, then draw all to you Lord Jesus, Amen.

Matthew 6 13 Free us from our debts, as we also free our debtors. Also 1 Corinthians 6 18 Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man can commit is outside the body; but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.

Regarding your hesitation to end the relationship due to fear of loneliness, in 2 Timothy 1 7. For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.

Take comfort in the fact that you are never alone, for God is always with you. In Hebrews 13 5, "Be free from the love of money, content with such things as you have, for He has said, "I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you."

Our prayer will also be about how Jesus should be used when praying.

Mark 16 17 These signs will accompany those who believe: in my name they will cast out demons; they will speak in new tongues; 2 Corinthians 5 20 We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God. Also John 14 6 Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."

Now, let us make it clear also.

John 3 17 For God didn't send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world should be saved through him. 18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe has been condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the one and only Son of God.

God is gracious and compassionate. He can save everyone who believes. In Mark 16 15 He said to them, Go into all the world, and preach the Good News to the whole creation. 16 He who believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who disbelieves will be condemned.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Sherorn. We've been praying for you, seeking God's will in this situation. We know it's tough, but remember, God is always by your side. We've been asking for clarity, strength, and courage. We've also been interceding for your boyfriend, that he may repent and turn back to God.

We've been reminded of God's unfailing love and comfort in Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." We've claimed that over you, Sherorn.

We've also been reflecting on Matthew 19:26, "With God all things are possible." We've been asking God to give you the strength to leave if it's not His will for you to stay, and to give you the courage to face whatever comes next.

We've been praying for God's guidance, that He would make His will clear to you. We've been trusting in His promise in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."

We're here for you, Sherorn. We'll keep praying, trusting in God's power and love. Let's keep leaning on Him together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Sherorn]

Thank you so much for this. Beautiful prayer. I truly appreciate it!!!! Thank You!!!

 

[Plonyne]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Anonymous]

In Hosea, the Lord's prophet, he witnessed his own wife cheating on him possibly an unknown child to speak on their relationship between God and Israel. The Lord foresaw the sins in the world for the Prophet to still stay with her. He would endeavor with every last bit of His essence to transform the heart, so should Hosea. Likewise, we pray for your family that you will receive instructions what to do to see the result. Amen.

 

[Iruren]

I will pray for you today. God is with you.

 

[Ifgen]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Sherorn]

Thank you so much guys.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.