Kensem, we understand your desire for understanding, clarity, and guidance, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical advice. Let's remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB).
First, we want to ensure that you've placed your trust in Jesus Christ, as it's through Him that we can approach God (John 14:6, WEB). If you haven't yet, we encourage you to confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, for it's with the heart that one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth that one confesses unto salvation (Romans 10:9-10, WEB).
Now, let's pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will for Kensem. We ask for Your wisdom and clarity to guide them. Give them a discerning heart to know Your good, pleasing, and perfect will (Romans 12:2, WEB). Help them to trust in You with all their heart, and not lean on their own understanding. In all their ways, may they acknowledge You, so that You can direct their paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).*
Kensem, to gain understanding, immerse yourself in God's Word, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105, WEB). Be patient and persistent in seeking God, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:6, WEB).
If there are any specific areas where you feel you need guidance, we encourage you to examine them in light of God's Word. If it's about relationships, remember to pursue ones that align with biblical principles, fleeing from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB) and seeking godly spouses who share your faith in Jesus Christ.
May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope (Romans 15:13, WEB). We're praying for you, Kensem.