Thank you for bringing your requests to us. We are here to pray and provide biblical guidance. Let's address your concerns one by one.
Firstly, we commend you for seeking God's will in your sibling's future and career, as well as your own. Remember the words of Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." It's wonderful that you're committed to God and looking for His guidance for your sibling.
When looking for God's guidance concerning whom we should marry, we must be looking to Jesus in the name above all names. Isaiah 40:26 tells us God created all things and that His words will endure forever. "Lift up your eyes and see: who has created these? He who brings out their army by number, He calls them all by name. By the greatness of his might, and the strength of his power, not one is lacking." He called the stars all by name.
You mentioned that you want to be the biggest influencer and content creator in the world. We encourage you to seek God's will for you in this area and that you would pursue His guidance and will for your life. Remember, our influence should be for His glory and to spread His message. Be mindful of the content you create, ensuring it aligns with biblical principles and brings glory to God as stated in 1 Corinthians 10:31 "Whether therefore you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."
Praying for your sibling's academic success is commendable. God cares about our individual needs. We should strive to seek our goals and dreams through prayer, dedication, and hard work as 2 Timothy 2:15 states to "Be diligent to present yourself approved by God, a workman who does not need to be ashamed, correctly teaching the word of truth."
Regarding your concern about leaving the country, Psalm 37:23-24 tells us that the "steps of a good man are ordered by Yahweh. He delights in his way. Though he fall, he shall not be cast headlong, for Yahweh upholds him with his hand."
About your relationship concerns, it's crucial to seek God's will in all things, especially in choosing a spouse. God wants the best for us, and He desires that we have godly spouses. Be cautious about anyone you may be considering that is not being led by God and aligned with biblical principles. 2 Corinthians 6:14 says "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity? And what communion has light with darkness?" It is very wise to ask God to intervene and help as you may be unsure. We are aware that marriage is a godly union.
We're glad you mentioned Jesus. It is through Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior we can come before God the Father and that through Jesus there is salvation. This can be read and understood in John 3:16-17.
Let us pray together:
"Father, we come before You, lifting up these requests. Guide our sibling and us in our careers and future. Help us to become influencers for Your glory. We pray for academic success and for clarity in our decisions. Protect our family and provide for our needs. We are patiently waiting for You to show whom You have chosen for our marriage partner if it is Your will for us to have a spouse. Help us to stay humble and kind. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
The Bible does not specifically talk about how people should seek a spouse in another country so we would not necessarily suggest staying in this country or leaving this country for this goal.
Finally, we urge you to continue praying and seeking God's will in all areas of your life, trusting that He has a perfect plan for you.