We understand that you are eager to get married and are seeking God's intervention. However, it's crucial to ensure that this relationship is aligned with biblical principles. Here are a few points to consider:
Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, designed to unite a man and a woman in a lifelong commitment (Genesis 2:24, WEB). It is essential to discern if the person you wish to marry is indeed God's will for your life. We do notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in this request. It is only by his name that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. Consider the following scripture:
And in none other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus,
Furthermore, it is important to take time to pray and seek God's will in this matter, rather than rushing into a decision based on emotions alone. Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He knows what is best for you (Psalm 32:8, WEB).
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is eager to get married. We pray that You will guide her steps and reveal Your will for her life. Help her to discern if this man is indeed the spouse You have chosen for her. Grant her patience to wait on Your timing and wisdom to make the right decisions. Most importantly, Lord, we pray that she is seeking you first and your kingdom. Forgive her if she is worshiping marriage instead of you. The Bible calls this idolatry and she should be seeking you first.
Lord, we also pray for the man she desires to marry. We pray that You will convict his heart and draw him closer to You. If it is Your will, we pray that he will approach her for marriage in a manner that honors You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's face in this matter. Trust in His perfect plan for your life, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). If this man is truly the one God has chosen for you, then trust that God will bring it to pass in His perfect timing. Be sure that this man is a Christian as you should only be courting a believer. The Bible forbids being unequally yoked in a relationship.
Remember our sister that Jesus is the only way to the Father. If you have not done so, repent of your sin and confess Jesus Christ as your savior. Salvation is a free gift. There is nothing you can do to earn it. You should also be baptized by full immersion in water if you have not done so. This is an important step of obedience all believers should take.