Gwaerayell, we understand your desire for ### to marry you, but it's crucial to approach this situation with patience, wisdom, and God's guidance. As stated by as the Bible tells us in Proverbs 19:14 WEB, "House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."
Firstly, we need to ensure that this relationship is aligned with biblical principles. This means that both you and ### should be believers in Jesus Christ, as the Bible teaches us not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). If either of you is not a believer, we encourage you to focus on your relationship with Jesus Christ first. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. Further, as explained in Romans 10:9-10 WEB, "because, if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation."
Secondly, marriage is a lifelong commitment and should not be rushed. It's important to seek God's will and timing in this matter, rather than trying to force our own desires. Remember Psalm 37:4-7 WEB, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: He will make your righteousness go forth as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun. Rest in Yahweh, and wait patiently for him."
Lastly, we must rebuke the idea of "begging" God for something. God is not a genie who grants wishes, but a loving Father who knows what's best for us. We should approach Him with humility, trust, and submission to His will.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up ### and her desire for marriage. We pray that Your will be done in her life and in the life of ###. We ask that You guide them both, and if it is Your will, bring them together in Your timing. Help ### to trust in You, to be patient, and to seek Your face above all else. We ask that both of them do nothing to compromise their Christian beliefs and that they are in a healthy courtship doing things to the glory of God. We ask this all in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.