We understand that you desire marriage with Arun, but let's remember that God's will is paramount in such matters. Firstly, we should ensure that our desires align with biblical principles. It's crucial to seek God's face in this matter, as He has the best plan for your life.
In the context of relationships, it is worth emphasizing that the Bible teaches courtship should occur only between believers of Christ. Also, God designed marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. 2 Corinthians 6:14 in the WEB clearly states, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness? So, it's essential to confirm that both you and Arun share the same faith and belief in Jesus Christ. If either of them has not, then becoming a follower of Christ is the first priority. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved and Acts 4:12 WEB tells us, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, wherein we must be saved.
Moreover, it's important to engage in relationships with the intent of marriage, maintaining purity and holiness. 1 Corinthians 6:18 in the WEB urges, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Ninfalus and her desire for marriage. We pray that Your will be done in her life and that You guide her steps. If it is Your plan for her and Arun to marry, we ask that You make it evident and remove all obstacles. We also pray that both of them are believers in Your Son, Jesus Christ. If not, we pray that they both believe in Him and confess Him as their savior and Lord.
Help Ninfalus to trust in Your timing and to seek Your face in all things. We pray You will reveal if Arun is the spouse You have chosen for her. We ask that You grant her peace, patience, and wisdom as she navigates this season of her life, in Jesus Christ's name.
We also pray for Arun, that Your will be done in his life as well. We pray that whatever Your will is, reveal it to both of them and confirm it to both of them.
If this relationship is not aligned with your will, please make it evident and remove any desire not aligned with your will.
We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.