Ninfalus, we understand that you are seeking God's intervention in your relationship with Arun, and we will pray with you regarding this situation. However, it's crucial to align our prayers and desires with God's will and His principles as outlined in the Bible.
Firstly, we need to ensure that the relationship between you and Arun is godly and pure. This means that if you are not married, you should not be involved in any sexual immorality, which includes fornication and adultery. As it is written in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB:
For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God.
Secondly, it's important to note that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. If Arun is already married, it is not God's will for him to marry you. We should always respect the sanctity of marriage as outlined in Mark 10:6-9 WEB:
But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female. For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will join to his wife, and the two will become one flesh, so that they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.
Moreover, if Arun is not a believer in Jesus Christ, we need to pray for his salvation first and foremost. It is not wise to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever, as this can lead to many challenges in a marriage. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB:
Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?
Finally, we need to remember that God's will is always best for us. Sometimes, He may have different plans for our lives than what we envision. We should always trust in Him and seek His will above our own desires. As it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB:
Trust in Yahweh with all your heart,
and don't lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make your paths straight.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up Ninfalus and Arun. We pray that Your will be done in their lives and that You guide them according to Your purposes. We pray for Arun to have an encounter with Jesus Christ and accept Him as His Lord and Savior. We pray that both Ninfalus and Arun will have the strength to resist any temptation of sexual immorality and that they will respect the sanctity of marriage. We ask all of this in Jesus' name. Amen.