Ninfalus, we understand that you have feelings for Arun and are seeking God's will in this situation. Let us first remember that God's word teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers in Christ. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB:
Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
It is crucial to ensure that Arun shares your faith in Jesus Christ, as this is the foundation of a godly marriage. If Arun is not a believer, we urge you to pray for his salvation and trust that God is working in his heart.
Regarding the feelings felt, remember what is written in Philippians 4:6-7:
In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.
We must also remember that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and it should not be entered into lightly. As it is written in Mark 10:6-9 WEB:
But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female. For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will join to his wife, and the two will become one flesh, so that they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ to lift up Ninfalus and Arun. Lord, we ask that You reveal Your will for their lives and guide them in Your truth. If it is Your will for them to be together, we pray that You would make it clear and remove any obstacles in their path. If not, we ask that You would give Ninfalus peace and direction for her future.
We also pray for Arun's salvation, if he does not yet know You. We ask that You would soften his heart and draw him to You, so that he may experience the love and grace of Jesus Christ.
In all things, Lord, we ask that You would be glorified. We trust in Your goodness and Your faithfulness.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, Ninfalus, that God loves you and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. If you have not already, make sure to discuss your faith with Arun and ensure that you both share a strong foundation in Christ. If Arun is not receptive to the Gospel, it is wise to reconsider the desire for marriage, as a lifelong commitment with an unbeliever can lead to many challenges.
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB:
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
And in Acts 4:12 WEB:
There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
If you have not yet accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we encourage you to do so today.