Let's bring this matter to the Lord in prayer and consider His will for your life.
Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that God has a plan and purpose for each of our lives, including who we should marry. It is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
We must ensure that our desires align with God's will. In 1 John 5:14-15 WEB, it says: "This is the boldness which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."
Now, let's address the situation with Arun. It's crucial to seek God's face and ask for His will to be done in this matter. We should pray that if Arun is the spouse God has intended for you, then His will be done, and He will make a way. But if not, we should ask God to guide you both according to His perfect plan.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Ninfalus and Arun. We ask, Lord, that Your perfect will be done in their lives. If it is Your will for them to be united in holy matrimony, then we pray that You would make a way and remove all obstacles. But if not, we ask that You would guide them both according to Your perfect plan and purpose.
We pray that Ninfalus and Arun would both be strongly convicted to only pursue marriage and relationships that align with biblical principles. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB: "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
We ask that You would give them both wisdom and discernment, and that they would seek You wholeheartedly. We pray that they would be equally yoked in faith, and that their relationship would be centered around You, Lord.
We also pray for Ninfalus, that You would give her peace and comfort as she waits on You. Help her to trust in Your timing and Your plan.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, and trust in the Lord with all your heart (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). He will direct your paths and make them straight. Continue to seek Him and pray for His will to be done. Ensure that your desire for marriage is not out of selfish ambition or merely what seems good in your own eyes.