Let us begin by bringing this matter to God in prayer, seeking His will for your life and Arun's.
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your daughter Ninfalus. We pray that Your will be done in her life and in the life of Arun. We ask for Your guidance and wisdom in this situation, and we pray that You would make it clear if Arun is the spouse You have chosen for her. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen."
Ninfalus, it is important to remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). We must trust in His timing and His plan for our lives. It is also crucial to ensure that our desires align with God's will and His principles as outlined in the Bible.
The Bible tells us that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman (Matthew 19:4-6, WEB). It is a sacred covenant designed by God, and it should not be entered into lightly or without careful consideration and prayer.
We must also remember that God desires that we marry fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). Therefore, it is important to consider whether Arun shares your faith in Jesus Christ. If not, we encourage you to pray for his salvation and trust that God will lead you both according to His will.
Lastly, we want to remind you that God desires that we live in purity before marriage (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, WEB). Therefore, it is important to maintain boundaries in your relationship with Arun that honor God and His principles.
We encourage you to continue praying for God's will in this situation, trusting that He will lead you according to His perfect plan. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and remember that He is the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2, WEB).
If you have not already, we encourage you to study the Bible and grow in your relationship with Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to God, and it is only through faith in Him that we can be saved (John 14:6, WEB; Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have any questions about this, we would be happy to discuss it further with you.
Be strong and courageous, knowing that God loves you and has a plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).