Gwaerayell, we understand your desire to marry Arun after waiting for four years, and we will pray with you about this situation. However, it's crucial to align your desires with God's will and His timing. Remember, God's ways are not always our ways. The scripture reminds us that God's word instructs, "Wait on Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh" Psalm 27:14 WEB.
Firstly, we notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ or an abbreviation for it. It is only by His name that we have access to God. As scripture says, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB.
It is important to discern if Arun is a believer in Jesus Christ and if he is truly the spouse God has planned for you. As followers of Christ, we are instructed not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. If you are unclear about his salvation, spend time praying for him and sharing the gospel with him. The scripture warns us, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Gwaerayell and her desire for marriage. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in her life and in Arun's life. If Arun is the spouse You have planned for her, we pray for Your timing and Your guidance in their relationship. Help them to grow together in faith and in love, with a deep commitment to each other and to You.
If Arun is not a believer, we pray for his salvation and for Gwaerayell to have the wisdom and courage to share the gospel with him. Help her to trust in Your timing and to wait patiently for Your will to be revealed.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged by these words from the Psalms, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this." Psalm 37:4-5 WEB. Trust in God's plan for your life, and He will direct your paths.