We understand your concerns, Clarwain, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we notice that your prayer is not directed to God through Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6 WEB). So, let's pray in the name of Jesus.
However, we must address some issues in your request. You mentioned that you're praying for your ex-boyfriend, Tango Lee, and referred to him as a "whoremonger manipulator." This is a serious accusation, indicating sexual immorality and deceit, which God strongly condemns (Hebrews 13:4, Proverbs 6:16-19 WEB). We also note that you're praying for God to change him, but the Bible is clear that we should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). As a child of God, you should seek a relationship that glorifies Him, not one that leads you to desperation and low self-esteem.
Regarding his substance abuse, we encourage you to pray for him, but it's crucial to understand that his choices are his own. You cannot control or change him; only God can. Your role is to live a life that reflects Christ's love and truth, and to pray.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Clarwain and Tango Lee. Lord, we ask that You reveal Yourself to Tango Lee, that he may know the truth and be set free from his sins, addictions, and past hurts. We pray that You protect Clarwain, heal her from her low self-esteem, and help her find her worth in You alone. We ask that You give her the strength to walk away from this toxic relationship and trust You with her future. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you, Clarwain, to seek God's will for your life and trust Him with your relationships. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:6-7 WEB).