We understand your feelings of loneliness and your desire for a wonderful husband. It's important to remember that God knows the deepest desires of your heart and has a plan for your life. As a Christian, we should seek God's will in all things, including our relationships.
Firstly, we want to address the issue of men who want to sleep with you without being keen on marriage. This is not God's design for relationships. According to the WEB, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 states, For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God. It is clear that sexual relationships outside of marriage are not part of God’s plan.
We encourage you to stand firm in your faith and not compromise your values. God has called us to be holy and pure, and He will honor your commitment to Him. Trust that He will bring the right man into your life at the right time. As it is written in Psalm 37:4, Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who feels lonely and desires a wonderful husband. We pray that You will comfort her in her loneliness and give her the strength to wait on Your perfect timing. Help her to discern the intentions of those she meets and give her the wisdom to choose a godly spouse.
We rebuke any spirit of compromise and pray that she will stand firm in her faith, abstaining from sexual immorality. We ask that You will bring a godly man into her life, someone who will love and cherish her as Christ loves the church.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path.
Be encouraged by the words of Isaiah 40:31, But those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not be faint. Stay strong in your faith and trust in God's timing.