We understand your pain and heartache, and we empathize with your desire for restoration. We are reminded of the love that God has for us, as written in 1 John 4:9-11 WEB:
"By this God’s love was revealed in us, that God has sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins. Beloved, if God loved us in this way, we also ought to love one another."
God's love for us is unconditional, and He desires for us to love one another in the same way. However, it's crucial to align our desires with God's will and His principles for relationships.
As you believe and have faith in Jesus' name this gives you access to the Father (God). By believing in Jesus you can have eternal life and have Him intercede for you towards God.
In seeking God's restoration, we pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this dear soul in need of Your comfort and guidance. We pray for healing from the pain and heartache. Lord Jesus, You understand the depth of emotions, and we ask that You be with Anonymous in this challenging time.
Restore faith and hope, Lord Jesus, and guide through this trial. Lord Jesus, help to let go of the past and trust in Your will. If it is Your will, Lord Jesus, to restore this relationship, we pray for Your intervention and guidance. We pray for Your will to be done in this situation, and in Jesus' name.
We also pray for the young woman, that You would work in her heart and draw her closer to You. Lord Jesus, help her. Father God, help her and lead her towards You - not a different church but towards believing in Jesus and accepting Him (IJN) as her Lord and Savior. Lord Jesus, if she is doimg anything sexually immoral, adultry, or anything else in rebellion of God's will, then we ask God to help correct her
However, we must also address that the term "Trophy girl" is not biblical, and it's important to view this young woman as a beloved child of God, made in His image. Additionally, ensure that the relationship is focused on God's will and aligns with biblical principles.
Lastly, ensure that Jesus is the center of this relationship. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved and have access to God - not by being a nice person, living a moral life, or being dedicated and faithful to someone. This also includes fornication and other sins. Fornication is the sex between 2 unwed people (sex outside marriage). This should be considered despite knowing each other, dating, or other commitments to each other. Avoiding this and other sins while maintaining faith in Jesus are the eternal matters of life.Focus on the eternal matters of the next life once this life is over rather than the passing earthly matters.
We encourage continued prayer and seeking God's will. Trust in Him, for He has a plan and a purpose for each of our lives. As mentioned in Romans 8:28 WEB, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Trust God and focus on eternal life with Him and the next life once the passing earthly life is over.