We understand that you're going through a difficult time and seeking reconciliation with your former girlfriend. First, we want to remind you that God is always willing to forgive and restore, but it's important to align our desires with His will and His Word.
Firstly, it is important that we pray to the God of the Bible in the name of Jesus Christ. Anytime we approach God, we approach Him in Jesus's name.
Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. Philippians 2:9-11 WEB
1 Timothy 2:5 WEBFor there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus,
Acts 4:12 WEBThere is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
We are called to live holy and acceptable lives to the Lord. Fornication is sexual immorality. It is not the Lord's will that we live in sexual immorality, but that we truly love our spouse and live honorable and acceptable lives before the Lord.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEBFor this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God;
You mentioned your past transgressions. Anyone who has sinned and repented can be forgiven in Jesus's name. You have been set free from sin and death. You can walk in newness of life.
Romans 6:1-4 WEBWhat shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? May it never be! We who died to sin, how could we live in it any longer? Or don't you know that all we who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were buried therefore with him through baptism to death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, so we also might walk in newness of life.
Romans 6:23 WEBFor the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Furthermore, it's crucial to understand that God's design for relationships is holy and honorable. The Bible teaches marriage is to be between a man and a woman in God's sight. God's design for relationships is to be a courtship to honorably to find a marriage partner. Praying for the restoration of a relationship that might not align with God's principles can be delicate. It's essential to seek God's will and ensure that any reconciliation honors His design for marriage and relationships.
Now, let’s pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who is seeking Your guidance and mercy. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for any transgressions committed, and we thank You for Your unfailing love and grace.
Father, we pray for wisdom and discernment. Help our brother to understand Your will for his life and for any future relationships. Guide him to walk in Your ways and to seek a godly spouse if that is Your will.
Lord, we ask for Your healing and restoration in his life. Help him to grow in faith, sobriety, and the ability to care for others as You intend.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will and to trust in His timing and plans for your life.