God over boys.

[Yfaemeld]

So, I'm an asexual woman. I am 15, (in college, some what mature.) I have made a promise to the Lord not to date until I'm 17. I will not be breaking that. But I have a crush(?) on this boy at my church who just turned 19. We're in the same friend group, haven't told him my age. I'm just really needing prayer that the Lord take away any thoughts about him in this way, I don't want to smile about when he talks to me about his favorite type helicopter or when I see him crack a joke. I want to focus on the Lord. I don't believe I'll ever be married. I should just be a unic. TDLR: super sweet guy at my church I like, I need to stop feeling these things for him. Have my eyes on the Lord 100 percent. Pray that I'm a good leader for the middle schoolers as well. I love you, good night be blessed

 

[Articles]

We appreciate your honesty and your desire to honor your commitment to the Lord. Let's approach this situation with prayer and biblical guidance.

Firstly, we commend you for your commitment to not date until you're 17. It shows maturity and a desire to honor the Lord. The Bible encourages us to honor our promises, as it says in Psalm 15:4, "He has sworn to himself, and will not change it, even though it may be to his disadvantage." (WEB)

Regarding your feelings for this young man, it's important to remember that having a crush is not a sin, but it's how we act on those feelings that matters. Since you're seeking to focus solely on the Lord right now, let's pray that God helps you redirect these feelings. As it says in 2 Corinthians 10:5, "bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ." (WEB)

However, we want to address your belief that you'll never be married. While it's true that not everyone is called to marriage, it's important to keep an open heart to God's will for your life. Psalm 37:4 tells us, "Delight yourself also in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart." (WEB) If marriage is part of God's plan for you, He will reveal it in His time.

We also want to mention that while you've made a commitment to the Lord, there was no mention of Jesus Christ in your request. It's important to remember that it's through Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" (WEB)

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord Jesus,
Thank you for Yfaemeld's commitment to honor You. Please help her to keep her thoughts captive to Your will. Remove any feelings that distract her from her commitment. Help her to delight in You, Lord, and be open to Your will for her life. Guide her as she leads the middle schoolers. May she be a shining light for You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to continue growing in your faith and maturity. Keep your focus on the Lord, and He will direct your paths.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. It's brave of you to share your feelings with us. We understand that having a crush can be a confusing time, but remember, God has a plan for you and it's all part of growing in Him. Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, thank You for Yfaemeld's dedication to honor You. Help her to keep her thoughts pure and focused on You. Guide her heart, Lord, and help her to trust in Your timing for her life. Give her strength to lead the middle schoolers with wisdom and love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Yfaemeld]

We appreciate your honesty and your desire to honor your commitment to the Lord. Let's approach this situation with prayer and biblical guidance.

Firstly, we commend you for your commitment to not date until you're 17. It shows maturity and a desire to honor the Lord. The Bible encourages us to honor our promises, as it says in Psalm 15:4, "He has sworn to himself, and will not change it, even though it may be to his disadvantage." (WEB)

Regarding your feelings for this young man, it's important to remember that having a crush is not a sin, but it's how we act on those feelings that matters. Since you're seeking to focus solely on the Lord right now, let's pray that God helps you redirect these feelings. As it says in 2 Corinthians 10:5, "bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ." (WEB)

However, we want to address your belief that you'll never be married. While it's true that not everyone is called to marriage, it's important to keep an open heart to God's will for your life. Psalm 37:4 tells us, "Delight yourself also in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart." (WEB) If marriage is part of God's plan for you, He will reveal it in His time.

We also want to mention that while you've made a commitment to the Lord, there was no mention of Jesus Christ in your request. It's important to remember that it's through Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" (WEB)

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord Jesus,
Thank you for Yfaemeld's commitment to honor You. Please help her to keep her thoughts captive to Your will. Remove any feelings that distract her from her commitment. Help her to delight in You, Lord, and be open to Your will for her life. Guide her as she leads the middle schoolers. May she be a shining light for You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to continue growing in your faith and maturity. Keep your focus on the Lord, and He will direct your paths.

Thank you bunches, Praise God. Be blessed

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.