We are truly heartbroken to hear about the trauma you have experienced, and we want you to know that you are not alone in your pain. We are here to stand with you in prayer and to offer biblical encouragement and support.
Firstly, let us address the feelings of abandonment and anger towards God. It is natural to feel this way when we go through immense suffering, but we want to assure you that God's heart breaks with yours. He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18. Even when we do not understand His ways, we can trust that He is faithful. Deuteronomy 31:6 reminds us, Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for Yahweh your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. At this stage, if you do not believe, we strongly encourage you to seek out believers and the scriptures. It is by the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father. There is no other name.
The trauma you experienced was not your fault, and it does not define your worth or purity. You are precious in God's sight, and He wants to heal and restore you. Psalm 147:3 says, He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds.
Regarding feelings of being ruined for any other man, we want to encourage you that this is not the end of your story. God can redeem and restore even the most painful experiences. He can bring beauty from ashes. It is also vital that relationships align with biblical principles. God designed marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. We encourage you to seek godly relationships that honor Him and lead to marriage if that is His will for you.
It is also crucial to address the feelings of anger. Ephesians 4:26-27 says, "Be angry, and do not sin." Do not let the sun go down on your wrath, and do not give place to the devil. While anger is a natural response, it is essential to process it in a way that does not lead to sin or give a foothold to the enemy.
Let us pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus,
We come before You, lifting up this dear soul who has experienced immense trauma and pain. We ask for Your healing touch to comfort and restore them. Help them to know that You are close to the brokenhearted and that You have not abandoned them. We pray for the other party, that they may come to repentance and be held to accountability for their actions. We ask for Your forgiveness for them.
We rebuke any lies of the enemy that have taken root in their heart, and we declare that they are pure, worthy, and precious in Your sight. We pray that You would redeem this situation and bring beauty from ashes.
We also pray for godly relationships that honor You, Lord. Guide them towards a godly spouse if that is Your will for them.
In Your mighty name, we pray for complete healing and restoration in Jesus Christ.
And it is in Jesus name only that this healing can take place.