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arickbunch
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I am so thankful for all the prayers from the great people on this forum and all over thecountry who have my family on their prayer lists.
I have repeated our need over and over so I will just summarize today.
My wife of 22 years left our home 9 weeks ago with one of our three children.
There were no major problems before she decided to leave.
She is staying with friends about 3 miles from our home so close yet so far away.These friends are influencing her in alot of negative ways.
She has repeatedly said we will get together and talk or get some family counseling then backs down.
My boys and I are devastated. We (me and by two teenage boys)have been seeing a family couselor to try to cope with our pain.
We all have discussed sitting down as a family and laying everything out and having a discussion my wife says ok then says she is too busy when we try to plan it.
The counselor thinks that is the way we should handle things,my wife thinks if she talks to the boys without me she will be able to get them to agree with her.
Her thinking is we can still all be a happy family even if she doesn't want to come back home.
I don't know how that works.
The boys say if she doen't come home they want nothing to do with her.
She has been trying to call them nearly everyday for going on 2 weeks and they will not take her calls.
She called me last night and says she will talk to all of us when she can figure a time out.
I BELIEVE GOD is working on her heart and soul this is the first contact that has been made since she told me 2 weeks ago we should probably get a divorce.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE continue to pray that God moves her to talk with us and he gives us the words to let her know we still want to fix our broken family.
God is moving and we pray that it continues in a positive way.
Thanks
If anyone has any advice or encouragement for us we can also be contacted at arickbunch@sbcglobal.net
I have repeated our need over and over so I will just summarize today.
My wife of 22 years left our home 9 weeks ago with one of our three children.
There were no major problems before she decided to leave.
She is staying with friends about 3 miles from our home so close yet so far away.These friends are influencing her in alot of negative ways.
She has repeatedly said we will get together and talk or get some family counseling then backs down.
My boys and I are devastated. We (me and by two teenage boys)have been seeing a family couselor to try to cope with our pain.
We all have discussed sitting down as a family and laying everything out and having a discussion my wife says ok then says she is too busy when we try to plan it.
The counselor thinks that is the way we should handle things,my wife thinks if she talks to the boys without me she will be able to get them to agree with her.
Her thinking is we can still all be a happy family even if she doesn't want to come back home.
I don't know how that works.
The boys say if she doen't come home they want nothing to do with her.
She has been trying to call them nearly everyday for going on 2 weeks and they will not take her calls.
She called me last night and says she will talk to all of us when she can figure a time out.
I BELIEVE GOD is working on her heart and soul this is the first contact that has been made since she told me 2 weeks ago we should probably get a divorce.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE continue to pray that God moves her to talk with us and he gives us the words to let her know we still want to fix our broken family.
God is moving and we pray that it continues in a positive way.
Thanks
If anyone has any advice or encouragement for us we can also be contacted at arickbunch@sbcglobal.net