We are truly sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing in your marriage. Firstly, let's bring this situation to God in prayer.
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage that is in distress. We pray for Your intervention, Lord, as You have the power to turn hearts and change situations. We ask that You soften your husband's heart, Lord, and bring him back to his family. We pray for healing, restoration, and the power of Your love to be manifested in their marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray.
Now, let's address your situation with some biblical principles. Firstly, it's important to remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB). He desires for marriages to be healed and restored. In 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 WEB, the apostle Paul instructs, "But to the married I command—not I, but the Lord—that the wife not leave her husband (but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife."
It's crucial to seek God's will for your marriage and to pray for your husband. In 1 Peter 3:1-2 WEB, wives are encouraged, "In like manner, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word; seeing your pure behavior in fear." This doesn't mean you should accept abusive behavior, but rather, it encourages you to live in a way that reflects Christ's love, which can be a powerful tool for reconciliation.
However, it's also important to examine your own actions and attitudes, as we are all called to repent and turn away from any sinful behaviors (Mark 1:15 WEB). Remember, God can bring beauty from ashes, and He can restore what is broken (Isaiah 61:3 WEB, Joel 2:25 WEB).
Lastly, it's vital to remember that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" If you haven't already, consider accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Also, pray to God in the name of Jesus Christ.
We encourage you to seek support from your local Christian community, and if necessary, professional Christian counseling can also be a helpful resource. Stay strong in your faith and trust in God's unfailing love and power.