God, I'm very confused.

[Eccles31]

I've been confused about my relationship with Samuel. I once saw some signs, when I told you that I wanted to let him go while I was admitted to the hospital, I saw his name "Samuel" on TV and on a devotion book the next day. However, I don't want to take these signs as a confirmation as some people regard these are not godly signs (I asked this question on Reddit). Samuel has been nonchalant to me since February this year and why am I still obsessed with him? Because I don't see his qualities in other men, and I'm not interested in others anymore. If God, you ask me to let him go, I'll do. I'm not pretty enough, not smart enough for Samuel to pick me as his girlfriend or a wife. I know he wants to get married. Samuel is way smarter than I am. He has a prestigious job, and he has lots of choices of picking a girlfriend or a wife he desires. Yes, if God, you would send me another man instead of him, please do. I don't think I should still fancy Samuel and I feel so dumb.

 

[Articles]

We understand your confusion and inner turmoil, Eccles31. Let's bring this situation before the Lord together, seeking His will and guidance.

Firstly, it's important to remember that God speaks to us primarily through His Word, the Bible, and not necessarily through signs like names on TV or in books. The Bible says, "Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light for my path" (Psalm 119:105 WEB). We should be cautious about interpreting signs without aligning them with God's Word.

Regarding your feelings for Samuel, it's clear that you have deep affection for him. However, it's crucial to consider whether this relationship is aligned with biblical principles. If Samuel is indeed a godly man seeking a wife, then his character should reflect Christ. If he has been nonchalant towards you, it might be a sign that he is not the one God has planned for you. Remember, "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh" (Proverbs 18:22 WEB). A godly relationship should be built on mutual love, respect, and a shared commitment to Christ.

It's also important to address your feelings of inadequacy. Know that your worth is not determined by your appearance or intelligence, but by the fact that you are a child of God. The Bible says, "For you are a chosen people. You are royal priests, a holy nation, God's very own possession. As a result, you can show others the goodness of God, for he called you out of the darkness into his wonderful light" (1 Peter 2:9 WEB). God has a purpose and a plan for your life, and He will bring the right person into your life at the right time.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today lifting up our sister Eccles31. Lord, she is confused and hurting, and we ask for Your guidance and comfort. Help her to discern Your will for her life, especially concerning her feelings for Samuel. If this relationship is not in line with Your plan, give her the strength to let go and trust in Your timing. Heal her from feelings of inadequacy and remind her of her worth in Your eyes. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. The Bible says, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). If you have not already, consider inviting Jesus into your life as your Lord and Savior. He loves you deeply and wants the best for you.

 

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We're right there with you, Eccles31. It's tough when our hearts are pulled in different directions, isn't it? Let's take this to the Lord together, seeking His will and His peace for your heart.

First off, we want to assure you that God sees you, and He cares about every detail of your life, including your relationship with Samuel. As the Bible tells us, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18 NIV). He's right there with you, even in your confusion and hurt.

We understand that you've seen signs that seem to point to Samuel, but remember, God often speaks to us through His Word first and foremost. He wants to guide us through His principles and teachings, not just through signs. Let's hold these signs up to the light of God's Word and ask Him to give you clarity.

Now, about Samuel. It's clear that you care for him deeply, but it's also important to consider if this relationship aligns with God's will for your life. If Samuel is indeed a godly man, his character should reflect Christ. If he's been distant, it might be God's way of protecting you and leading you to someone who will cherish and respect you as you deserve.

Please know that your worth is not defined by your appearance or intelligence, but by the fact that you are a child of God. The Bible tells us, "For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do" (Ephesians 2:10 NIV). God has a purpose and a plan for you, and He's working everything out for your good (Romans 8:28).

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today on behalf of our sister Eccles31. Lord, she's confused and hurting, and we ask for Your guidance and comfort. Help her to discern Your will for her life, especially concerning her feelings for Samuel. If this relationship is not in line with Your plan, give her the strength to let go and trust in Your timing. Heal her from feelings of inadequacy and remind her of her worth in Your eyes. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Remember, Jesus loves you deeply and wants the best for you. He's there for you, always.

 

[Brother James]

I've been confused about my relationship with Samuel. I once saw some signs, when I told you that I wanted to let him go while I was admitted to the hospital, I saw his name "Samuel" on TV and on a devotion book the next day. However, I don't want to take these signs as a confirmation as some people regard these are not godly signs (I asked this question on Reddit). Samuel has been nonchalant to me since February this year and why am I still obsessed with him? Because I don't see his qualities in other men, and I'm not interested in others anymore. If God, you ask me to let him go, I'll do. I'm not pretty enough, not smart enough for Samuel to pick me as his girlfriend or a wife. I know he wants to get married. Samuel is way smarter than I am. He has a prestigious job, and he has lots of choices of picking a girlfriend or a wife he desires. Yes, if God, you would send me another man instead of him, please do. I don't think I should still fancy Samuel and I feel so dumb.

Praying for you in Jesus.

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...

There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[Lizzymay]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Brother in Christ (JC)]

I've been confused about my relationship with Samuel. I once saw some signs, when I told you that I wanted to let him go while I was admitted to the hospital, I saw his name "Samuel" on TV and on a devotion book the next day. However, I don't want to take these signs as a confirmation as some people regard these are not godly signs (I asked this question on Reddit). Samuel has been nonchalant to me since February this year and why am I still obsessed with him? Because I don't see his qualities in other men, and I'm not interested in others anymore. If God, you ask me to let him go, I'll do. I'm not pretty enough, not smart enough for Samuel to pick me as his girlfriend or a wife. I know he wants to get married. Samuel is way smarter than I am. He has a prestigious job, and he has lots of choices of picking a girlfriend or a wife he desires. Yes, if God, you would send me another man instead of him, please do. I don't think I should still fancy Samuel and I feel so dumb.

Praying with you sister. May our Heavenly Father guide you and bless you with a relationship, in the mighty name of Jesus I pray, amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[A C / A O]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.