God help me

Anonymous · Dec 29, 2017

Father my sexual needs are not being met because I am waiting on marriage. I am fighting porn addition, materbation, and sexual impulses. I don't think unmarried people understand how hard it is for a single man to control his sexual desires. After all married people have the right outlet for sex, but us unmarried men are told we have to wait for marriage. No big deal, until you are in your mid twenties and still a virgin and your curious as to what its really like to engage in intercourse with a women. Then it's like hell. Because if you get excited by seeing a women sharing really revealing clothing out in public. You can't just masturbate that's a sin. You cannot have sex with her because she's not yours, and you cannot ask her or you get accused of sexual harassment. So you just have to control yourself and surpress the hormones, and everything. A married man can have sex with his wife legally and within Gods design but for us single men, we are out of luck. With marriage nowhere in site, it just makes you feel horrible. And I can't help but ask, why God? Why can't you help me. Why won't you bless me with a wife so I have a proper outlet? It feels like I've been waiting forever. It may not seem like a big deal to some, but to me, it's hard. It's hard to not go find a wayward women to take my virginity. And I'm not supposed to masturbate because it's a sin. I'm not supposed to look at porn, I have no way to gratify throes desires that are supposed to be satisfied by my wife. And it's harder to get married now days than ever. So what do I do. I ask God to bless me with a wife that will supply all throes needs, and guess what, I'm still waiting. 13 years later I'm still waiting, still holding on to my physical virginity with a death grip, knowing that all it will take is one to who just wants to have some fun one night to catch me at a constable moment and take it from me. Please God, help me. Help me Jesus. Please give me a wife so that I have the proper outlet, and I can satisfy my sexual urges in a way that please you, and without sin. Please God, please I need a breakthrough. I need you to deliver me of this issue. Please don't leave me here struggling. I cannot defeat this on my own. I need a wife Father, not just for sex but for love and support. I pray that you would give me this wonderful wife soon. In Jesus name, amen.

essa · Dec 29, 2017

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

Anonymous · Dec 29, 2017

It seems that sex IS the only reason you want to get married , I pray that your focus on sex goes away for your sake

Vladi777 · Dec 29, 2017

I pray Jesus Christ to hear your prayers and answer according to His will! God bless you abundantly! Please, pray for me - Lord Jesus Christ soon blessed me with a job and a wife, according to my dreams! Thank you for the support!

The Encourager · Dec 29, 2017

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Tinkb78729 · Dec 29, 2017

May the Lord be with you in all that you need. May you feel his presence and know that you are not alone and know that he hears all. Do not lose faith, because our father answers all prayers, sometimes in the most unexpected ways. In his Holy Name, AMEN.

Anonymous · Dec 29, 2017

Anonymous said:
It seems that sex IS the only reason you want to get married , I pray that your focus on sex goes away for your sake

Are you a man or a women? If your a women then let me just say, you don't have a clue how hard it is. Men get turned on by visual stimulation. Thats the way God made us. So means if a women is wearing revealing clothing, which many of them do, and is also atractive, and we see them. There's a good chance it will arouse us. The way sex was designed was to be between a man and his wife. But things have changed, men hit puberty a much earlier age than they did in biblical times and most men probably won't get married until age 25 to 35. So from the time we hit puberty around 12-14 years old till we get married, and sometimes longer were supposed to abstain from sex. Then let's add peer pressure, and a culture that encourages sex if it feels right to the mix, and women dressing in revealing clothing, easy access to porn via the internet, now you tell me, it's not hard to wait. Especially if you have a hyper sex drive like me. There's a reason God created marriage, and that's part of it. Just saying. And no sex is not the only I want to get married. I'm just struggling with something every Christian man struggles with.

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