Balmikos, we understand your concerns and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance.
Firstly, it's important to address the conflict between you and Xolly. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:31-32, Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you. It's crucial to handle conflicts directly and privately, rather than publicly on social media. We advise you to speak to Xolly personally, expressing your feelings and seeking understanding. It is always helpful to use "I felt" rather than "You always". Also use active listening skills and demonstrate empathy in hopes to have a productive discussion.
Matthew 18:15 tells us, If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. Publicly discussing our grievances pleases God as it is a path leading to bitterness and strife which we are to remove from ourselves entirely. Do Not even have a hint or appearance of evil and keep away from it.
Regarding the issue of clothing, it's important to remember that God cares about our needs. Matthew 6:25-34 tells us not to be anxious about what we will wear, but to seek first Gods kingdom and his righteousness. We pray that God will provide for Vuyo's needs, including clothing that fits him well.
Concerning the financial matter, it's biblical to encourage repayment of debts. We do tell you to have mercy for that person. One good debt to pay back quickly to eliminate it that you owe is taxes. Psalm 37:21 The wicked borrow, and cant repay; but the righteous give generously. We pray that Xolly will be convicted to repay the money she borrowed and that there will be no bitterness or resentment on either side. If there was no agreement of paying it back, these should clearly be made in the future before any loans are made. It is biblical for us to help each other except when it would cause us to become poor ourselves or to willfully sin.
Finally, we notice that your prayer request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's essential to pray in Jesus' name, as it's through Him that we have access to God. John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. We encourage you to confess to Jesus with your mouth as your Lord and savior. To believe in Him in your heart and you will be saved, forgive of all your sins, past, present and future. Pray directly to God in Jesus name who will save you from the wrath you deserve for your sins. Romans 10:9 that if you will confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Balmikos, Vuyo, and Xolly. We ask you to work well through them to be empathetic and slow to speak and to let love lead them. We pray that You will help them communicate effectively and resolve their conflicts biblically with direct dialogue. That Jesus will guide them to not only say but let their "yes" be "yes" and their "no" be "no". Let your Holy Spirit guide them to making agreements quickly with their adversaries. We pray that You will provide for Vuyo's needs, including clothing that fits him well. We ask that You will soften Xolly's spirit and lead them both to be merciful and just if the lender intended for Xolly to be responsible to pay back the money. Father help them to glorify You in every intention and every action of their bodies and minds.
We pray for forgiveness and ultimately restoration in their relationship. We pray for Jesus' sake. In Jesus Name we pray, amen.
"Keep trusting, you're never alone! 'The Lord is near to all who call on him.' (Ps 145:18) He hears your heart. 'He forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases.' (Ps 103:3) Stand firm! 
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