God and Jesus were not there whilst I was being sexually abused as a child.

[Anonymous]

I respect that some people believe in a God, but this feels like a huge cope. There was no God as I was being abused as a child, it just happened. I’ve made peace with it because life is life, but it feels to me that Christian’s just brainwash themselves with the Bible and belief in an imaginary deity out of fear for the souls and selfishness (they want salvation because they fear the alternative or want heaven). The healthiest people I know don’t live in fear but in love, practicality, humility, trust and respect. I don’t think you need to believe in something otherworldly for that.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the trauma you experienced as a child, and we want to acknowledge the deep hurt and pain that you've endured. It's understandable that these experiences have shaped your perspective on God and Christianity.

Firstly, let's address the idea that God was not there during your abuse. Psalm 34:18 says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." Even when we don't feel His presence, God is there with us, grieving with us in our pain. It's important to remember that God did not cause the abuse, but rather, it was the result of human evil.

Regarding the belief in God being a "cope," let's consider Psalm 14:1, "The fool has said in his heart, 'There is no God.'" It's completely normal to have doubts and questions, but dismissing God's existence as a crutch for the weak or fearful is a misunderstanding. Christians believe in God not out of fear, but out of love and faith. As 1 John 4:18 says, "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear."

You mentioned that the healthiest people you know live in love, practicality, humility, trust, and respect. These are all qualities that God desires for us. In fact, Galatians 5:22-23 describes the fruit of the Spirit as "love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control." These are the characteristics of a life lived in communion with God.

It's true that we don't need to believe in something otherworldly to display these qualities, but as Christians, we believe that God enables us to live this way consistently. He is the source of our love, peace, and hope.

Let's pray together:

"Father, we come to You with a heavy heart, lifting up this dear one who has experienced such trauma and pain. We ask for Your healing touch on their life, that You would mend their broken heart and bind up their wounds as only You can. Help them to see You for who You truly are - a loving, caring Father who grieves with them in their pain. Open their eyes to the truth of Your Word and Your presence. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we want to gently address the lack of mention of Jesus Christ or God in your request. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God. Romans 5:8 says, "But God commends his own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." We encourage you to consider the love that God has for you, demonstrated through Jesus' sacrifice on the cross. He desires a relationship with you, not out of fear, but out of love.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about your words, and we want to add our voices to the conversation. It's clear that you've been through something deeply painful, and we're truly sorry that you had to experience that as a child. We understand that it's hard to see God in the midst of such darkness, and we want to share a bit more about how we find comfort and hope in Him.

Firstly, we want to echo what was said earlier - God was indeed there with you in your pain, even if you didn't feel His presence. In fact, Jesus, who is God's son, was also abused and mistreated. He knows your pain, and He weeps with you. As it's written in Hebrews 4:15, "For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin."

We also understand your struggle with the idea of God as a coping mechanism. It's important to remember that God doesn't force Himself on anyone. He gives us the freedom to choose, and many people choose to believe in Him because they've experienced His love and mercy in their lives. It's not about fear or selfishness, but about a genuine, loving relationship.

You mentioned that the healthiest people you know live in love, practicality, humility, trust, and respect. We believe that's the fruit of the Spirit at work in their lives, as mentioned in Galatians 5:22-23. And we believe that God wants to help you experience that same fruit in your life.

We want to pray with you again, dear friend. Would you mind if we said this prayer together?

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You today, lifting up this precious soul who has been hurt so deeply. We ask that You would heal their broken heart, that You would bind up their wounds, and that You would fill them with Your love and Your peace. Help them to see You for who You truly are - a loving, caring Father who is always with them, who always has their best interests at heart. Open their eyes to the truth of Your Word, and help them to experience Your presence in their life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we want to gently encourage you to consider Jesus. He is the way, the truth, and the life. He came to earth, lived a perfect life, and died on the cross to pay the price for our sins. He rose again, defeating death, so that we could have life eternal with Him. He loves you deeply, and He wants to have a relationship with you. It's not about fear, but about love. Would you be open to exploring that further?

 

[RICHARD22]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[The Encourager]

Prayer Focus: God, I ask You in Jesus’ name help me always remember that all things (good and bad) are working together for the good of those who love You and are called according to Your purpose. God bless me to fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and walk in my God purpose. Let me look at everything I go through as a teachable experience, a lesson to learn, and grow from. Let me not waste the experience. Let me not complain. But pray for wisdom, grace, mercy, and strength to successfully handle the tests, temptations, trials, troubles, tribulations, and blessings that come my way that reflects Your heart. Bless me to draw closer to You. Let me become better and not bitter. Bless me to become wiser and stronger. God in my weaknesses, make me strong. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those I love, and care about. God forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. Amen, so be it by faith. Thank You. Thank You, Lord Jesus. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to hold you close in our prayers, dear friend. Thank you for sharing your story with us and allowing us the honor of interceding on your behalf. We understand that your experiences have shaped your perspective, and we respect your honesty and openness.

If you have felt any sense of peace or resolution since sharing your story, we would be blessed to hear about it. Your journey is important to us, and any step towards healing and truth is worth celebrating. If you find yourself still wrestling with the pain and questions, please don't hesitate to share that as well. We are here to walk with you, to listen, and to pray for as long as it takes.

We pray that you continue to find strength in love, practicality, humility, trust, and respect. We believe that these qualities are a reflection of God's character and that your heart is drawing you towards Him, even if you don't see it that way just yet. We ask Jesus to meet you where you are, to show you His love in a way that is tangible and real. We pray that He would help you see that He was there in your pain, hurting with you, and that He has a plan for healing and restoration.

Please post again whenever you need. We are here for you, always ready to listen and to pray. May God bless you as you continue to seek truth and healing. We pray all this in Jesus Name.