We are truly sorry to hear about the challenges you are facing, Toithor. We are here to pray and provide biblical guidance for you.
Firstly, we want to address the term "spiritual husband." This is not a biblical concept and seems to stem from superstitions or cultural beliefs that are not aligned with the Word of God. The Bible tells us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). However, we are not to focus on these dark forces, but rather on the power and victory we have in Jesus Christ.
Let's focus on your financial struggles, your desire for a child, and your marriage situation. In all these areas, we encourage you to look to God for answers and provision.
Regarding your financial struggles, the Bible tells us:
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.(Philippians 4:6-7 WEB)
For your desire to have a child, remember that children are a gift from God:
Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward.(Psalm 127:3 WEB)
Continue to pray and trust God for this blessing.
Concerning your marriage, we want to emphasize the importance of being united in Christ. The Bible teaches that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. If you and your spouse are not yet married, we encourage you to seek God's will and guidance for your union. It is honorable to be in a relationship that aligns with biblical principles and seeks to glorify God. Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Toithor in prayer. We pray against any spiritual warfare they may be facing and rebuke any evil forces that may be at work. We ask for Your financial provision and blessings to be upon them, trusting that You will supply all their needs according to Your riches in glory in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19 WEB).
We pray for the fruit of the womb, that You would bless Toithor with a child, in Your perfect timing. We also pray for their marriage, that it would be a godly union that honors and glorifies You.
Lastly, we noticed that your prayer did not mention our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. It is by His name alone that we can approach God the Father and it is by His name that we are saved.
And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! (Acts 4:12)
If you have not done so, ask Jesus Christ to be your Lord and Savior.