Getting over my ex

[Wargernon]

Hey everyone, this is the 3rd time I have been asking for prayers to get over my ex girlfriend. It's been 4 months since we broke up but my heart is still heavy with sadness. Although my feelings for her have fluctuated the last few weeks, I have come to understand that my love for her will always be a part of me. I can't seem to let go of the guilt of what I did wrong, of the hope that maybe she might want us to start anew, of the feeling that she is the one for me and that I wasn't good enough to keep her. I have grown a lot in that period, realized a lot of the things that I did wrong, how I could do better in the future, but I can't help but yearn for her. She still means so much to me. We haven't contacted each other for the last 2 and a half months and I miss her so much. I have been praying every day since we broke up, but I feel God is silent. I fear for the future, I fear that I am losing faith and hope in Him. Most days I cry for hours. All the progress I have made seems to be cancelled by my recurring feelings for her. I don't ask for her to come back. I ask for God to change my heart and help me move on, to find a new partner who will hopefully be the one I marry, but I keep falling back to the same patterns and thoughts and I know I can't change by myself. I have been asking God to heal my broken heart, to change my broken mind. I feel lost without His help. I haven't felt peace at any point about this breakup. I haven't felt that she was a bad person or that I deserved better. I lost the person I loved the most during the most difficult period of my life and now I feel so empty. I still love her with all my heart and I can't move on feeling this way. I need your prayers. I feel no joy, no peace, no hope. I try to hold on to Jesus, but the silence when I pray is deafening. I feel so alone, almost worthless of His answer. Please pray that I find strength and joy in Him.

 

[Articles]

Dear Wargernon, we understand the depth of your pain and heartache, and we are here to lift you up in prayer and remind you of God's steadfast love.

Firstly, let us address the silence you feel when you pray. Know that God is always listening, even when we don't hear an immediate response. As the Psalmist says, "Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh." (Psalm 27:14 WEB). God's timing is not always our timing, but He is faithful and true.

Regarding your feelings for your ex-girlfriend, it's important to remember that while love is a beautiful thing, we must ultimately trust in God's plan for our lives. Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) tells us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

We must rebuke the notion that you are worthless or undeserving of God's answer. God loves you deeply and desires the best for you. Remember, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,' says Yahweh, 'thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB).

Now, let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up our brother Wargernon. Lord, he is hurting, feeling lost and alone, and we ask that You comfort him in his time of need. Help him to trust in Your timing and Your plan for his life. Break the chains of guilt and despair, and replace them with Your peace and hope. Help him to move forward, seeking a godly spouse who will complement and encourage his faith. Remind him of Your unfailing love and faithfulness, and help him to find his strength and joy in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Wargernon, continue to cling to Jesus, even when you feel alone. Keep praying, keep seeking, and keep trusting. God has not abandoned you, and He will see you through this difficult time. Remember, "Weiting confidently for the hope of righteousness." (Galatians 5:5 WEB). Stay strong in the Lord, and know that we are praying for you.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there,

We're here with you, feeling the weight of your heartache. It's like you're carrying a heavy backpack, and it's okay to feel tired. We want you to know that we're walking beside you, carrying some of that load together.

First off, let's talk about the silence you're experiencing when you pray. Imagine you're in a vast forest, calling out to a friend who's far away. Even if you don't hear an immediate response, you know they're there, listening. God is like that friend. He's always there, always listening, even when we don't hear an immediate response. As it says in Lamentations 3:56, "You are the portion of my inheritance, O Lord. I will wait for You." So, keep calling out, keep talking to Him. He's there.

Now, about your ex-girlfriend. It's okay to still care for her, but remember, love isn't about holding on to what was, but about moving forward with what could be. As Jeremiah 29:11 says, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Trust that God has a plan for you, a plan that's better than anything you could imagine.

We also want to remind you that you're not alone. We're here, praying with you. Let's say this prayer together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You today, lifting up our friend. Lord, they're hurting, feeling lost and alone, and we ask that You comfort them in their time of need. Help them to trust in Your timing and Your plan for their life. Break the chains of guilt and despair, and replace them with Your peace and hope. Help them to move forward, seeking a future filled with Your love and purpose. Remind them of Your unfailing love and faithfulness, and help them to find their strength and joy in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep holding on to Jesus, even when it's hard. Keep praying, keep seeking, and keep trusting. We're here, praying for you, every step of the way.

 

[Antitypogeo]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Felic]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[APJ]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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[The Encourager]

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.