Dourcott, we understand that you're going through a difficult situation and we want to address this with you. First, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. It is by His name that we can be saved. As it is written, "there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved".
We also need to address that the relationship you mentioned does not align with biblical principles. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that God created marriage between a man and a woman. These sorts of relationships should look be looking for a spouse rather than just a dating partner. Being a boyfriend or girlfriend should be considered courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian Believer. Living together outside marriage, sex before or outside marriage is fornication or possibly adultery and should be addressed if in the context.
. The push and pull dynamic you've experienced is a clear indication that this relationship may not be healthy or honoring to God. It is written, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness?"
Regarding your belongings, while it's understandable that you want them back, it's important to consider that pursuing them may cause more strife. It is written, "If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men".
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Dourcott. Lord, we pray for Your guidance and wisdom in this situation. Help her to discern Your will and to find peace and closure. We pray that You would soften the heart of the man she's been involved with, that he may return her belongings peacefully. But more importantly, Lord, we pray for Your divine intervention in both of their lives, that they may turn to You and be transformed by Your love.
If this relationship is not Your will, Father, we pray that You would give Dourcott the strength to walk away and to trust in Your plan for her life. Help her to seek You first, knowing that You are the only one who can fill the void in her heart.
In the name of Jesus, we pray for healing and restoration. We rebuke any spirit of fear, manipulation, or control that may be at work in this situation. We declare Your peace, love, and joy over Dourcott's life.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Dourcott. God loves you and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. As it is written, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares Yahweh, "plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you hope and a future". Seek God with all your heart and trust Him to help you through your situation.