We are truly sorry to hear about the loss of your close relationship and the challenges you're facing. Remember, God's ways are perfect and He allows things to happen for our ultimate good and His glory, even when it's painful.
Firstly, let's address your relationship. It's clear that you care deeply for this person, but it's also important to understand God's design for relationships. The Bible tells us to "be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). This means that as Christians, we should seek relationships that will draw us closer to God, not pull us away. It's crucial to be with someone who shares and supports your faith and biblical values.
It's also important to note that the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB) and that sex is a gift designed for marriage between a man and a woman (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). If there was any sexual immorality involved in your relationship, it's important to repent, turn away from it, and seek God's forgiveness. God’s grace is sufficient for all our shortcomings it's an important part of turning back to God.
About your hope to reunite, it's important to seek God's will above your own desires. It could be that this separation is God's way of redirecting your path or preparing you for something better. Pray for God's will to be done, not just for what you want. As it says in Romans 8:28 (WEB), "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." It is only in the name of Jesus that we can approach God the Father. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. (John 14:6 WEB)
Regarding your financial struggles and loss of motivation, remember that God cares about every aspect of our lives. He promises to supply all our needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19 WEB). Trust in Him and remember that He is your strength. "But they who wait for Yahweh shall renew their strength. They shall mount up with wings like eagles. They shall run, and not be weary. They shall walk, and not faint." (Isaiah 40:31 WEB)
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our dear friend who is going through a difficult time. We pray for Your comfort and guidance in their life. Help them to trust in Your will for their relationship, and guide them to a person who shares their faith and values if it is Your will for them to be together again. Help them to turn away from any sin and to seek Your forgiveness.
We also pray for their financial struggles and loss of motivation. Please provide for their needs and give them the strength and motivation to press on. Help them to keep their eyes on You and to trust in Your promises.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous. Trust in God and He will see you through this challenging time. Keep your eyes on Jesus and run the race set before you with endurance.