We are glad that you have reached out to us in the name of Jesus Christ, acknowledging Him as your King. It's important to remember that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Firstly, we want to address your feeling of loneliness and the uncertainty of your future. It's completely normal to desire good companionship and friends, as God has designed us for relationship. However, it's crucial to remember that God is always with you, as promised in Hebrews 13:5 WEB: "...for he has said, I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you."
Regarding your concern about your future and being taken care of, we want to remind you that God knows your needs and will provide for you. In Matthew 6:25-34 WEB, Jesus teaches us not to be anxious about our lives, but to seek first God's Kingdom and His righteousness, trusting that He will provide for our needs. Remember, God cares for you and He will carry you through Psalm 71:8-21.
As for the promise to live long in the Bible, you may refer to Psalm 91:14-16 WEB: "Because he has set his love on me, therefore I will deliver him. I will set him on high, because he has known my name. He will call on me, and I will answer him. I will be with him in trouble. I will deliver him, and honor him. With long life will I satisfy him, and show him my salvation."
We understand that your past experiences with conditional love may make it difficult for you to accept God's unconditional love. But remember, God is not like man. His love is steadfast and unfailing, as seen in 1 John 4:9-10 WEB: "By this God's love was revealed in us, that God has sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister in prayer. Thank You for Your unfailing love and presence in their life. Help them to fully embrace Your love, and heal any wounds from their past that may hinder them from experiencing Your love fully. Provide for their needs according to Your riches in glory, and bring godly companionship into their life. Guide their future, and give them peace and assurance that You are always with them.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue growing in your relationship with Jesus Christ. If you haven't already, consider finding a local Bible-believing church where you can fellowship with other believers and grow together in your faith and also to help you find a spouse if appropriate. Keep trusting in Him, and He will direct your paths.