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I feel like my life is ruined and empty! I had a full life 20 yrs ago with friends, hobbies, good health and family! My family quit hosting holidays and then moved away! I got through it and created a life as a single person but those friends married and moved before I could find someone! And of friends left, When I had a misunderstanding (i was sick and unable to attend some things) a few of those nicer friendships ended. Then my parents were in another state and did not want visitors due to moms anxiety and then my mom died in 2020. Then I moved states 3 yrs ago and its hard to meet friends. Dating seems impossible and I have never married at age 56. I am on a hamster wheel of working and trying to get debt free. I have a few close friends who live far away! I wish I had a husband and family! Help me. My life feels forgotten and meaningless and on a bad path to nowhere good!
 
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We are truly sorry to hear about the emptiness and loneliness you're feeling, BlessedChristian. Remember, our Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB).

Firstly, we want to encourage you that your life is not ruined or meaningless. God has a purpose and a plan for you (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). The enemy often tries to make us feel isolated and hopeless, but God promises to never leave us nor forsake us (Hebrews 13:5, WEB).

It's understandable that you desire a companion and a family. However, let's remember that God's timing is perfect, and He knows the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4, WEB, tells us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you continue to delight in Him, trust that He will fulfill your desires in His time and according to His will.

Let's also address the feeling of being on a hamster wheel, working and trying to get debt free. Remember what Jesus said in Matthew 6:31-33, WEB, "Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’, ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."

We also want to remind you that community is important. Consider joining a local church or groups where you can meet like-minded people. Proverbs 27:17, WEB, says, "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens his friend’s countenance."

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up BlessedChristian to you. Lord, we ask that you fill the emptiness in their life with your presence. Comfort them and remind them of their worth and purpose in you. We ask that you provide godly friends and a loving community to support and encourage them. We also pray for their finances, that you would help them manage their debts and provide for all their needs according to your riches in glory. If it is Your will, Lord, we ask that You bring a godly spouse into their life, that they may experience the joy and companionship of a marriage centered on You. In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue to press into Jesus. It is only in Him that we find true fulfillment and purpose. As Jesus said in John 10:10, WEB, "The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly." This abundant life is found in a relationship with Jesus Christ. If you haven't already, consider accepting Him as your Lord and Savior. It's the first step towards a truly full and meaningful life.
 
We're really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way, but we want you to know that you're not alone. We're here for you, and so is Jesus. He sees you, He knows your heart, and He cares deeply about your feelings.

We understand that it's tough when you feel like your life has lost its meaning and purpose. But remember, God has a plan for you, and He's working things out for your good, even when it's hard to see (Romans 8:28). He hasn't forgotten about you. In fact, He's promised to never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).

We know you're longing for companionship and a family. It's okay to desire these things, and it's okay to feel disappointed when they haven't happened yet. But trust that God's timing is perfect. He sees your heart, and He's working things out in His own time.

We also hear you about feeling stuck on the hamster wheel of work and debt. It's easy to get caught up in worry and anxiety about these things. But Jesus tells us not to worry about these things, but to seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to us (Matthew 6:33). Let's trust Him with our finances and our future.

Let's also not forget the power of community. Consider reaching out to local churches or groups where you can connect with others and grow together. Iron sharpens iron, after all (Proverbs 27:17).

Let's pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up our friend to You today. Lord, we ask that You fill the emptiness in their life with Your presence. Comfort them and remind them of their worth and purpose in You. We ask that You provide godly friends and a loving community to support and encourage them. We also pray for their finances, that You would help them manage their debts and provide for all their needs according to Your riches in glory. If it is Your will, Lord, we ask that You bring a godly spouse into their life, that they may experience the joy and companionship of a marriage centered on You. In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen.

Keep trusting in Jesus. He's got a plan for you, and He's working everything out for your good.
 
Word of God says God is God of Impossibilities
God remember this person u know what she is going through have Mercy on her n let a Miracle take place in her life let there be a Breakthrough n use her for ur Glory in Jesus Name Amen
 
We're really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way, but we want you to know that you're not alone. We're here for you, and so is Jesus. He sees you, He knows your heart, and He cares deeply about your feelings.

We understand that it's tough when you feel like your life has lost its meaning and purpose. But remember, God has a plan for you, and He's working things out for your good, even when it's hard to see (Romans 8:28). He hasn't forgotten about you. In fact, He's promised to never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).

We know you're longing for companionship and a family. It's okay to desire these things, and it's okay to feel disappointed when they haven't happened yet. But trust that God's timing is perfect. He sees your heart, and He's working things out in His own time.

We also hear you about feeling stuck on the hamster wheel of work and debt. It's easy to get caught up in worry and anxiety about these things. But Jesus tells us not to worry about these things, but to seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to us (Matthew 6:33). Let's trust Him with our finances and our future.

Let's also not forget the power of community. Consider reaching out to local churches or groups where you can connect with others and grow together. Iron sharpens iron, after all (Proverbs 27:17).

Let's pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up our friend to You today. Lord, we ask that You fill the emptiness in their life with Your presence. Comfort them and remind them of their worth and purpose in You. We ask that You provide godly friends and a loving community to support and encourage them. We also pray for their finances, that You would help them manage their debts and provide for all their needs according to Your riches in glory. If it is Your will, Lord, we ask that You bring a godly spouse into their life, that they may experience the joy and companionship of a marriage centered on You. In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen.

Keep trusting in Jesus. He's got a plan for you, and He's working everything out for your good.
Thank you for kindness, scripture and prayers!
 
We are truly sorry to hear about the emptiness and loneliness you're feeling, BlessedChristian. Remember, our Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB).

Firstly, we want to encourage you that your life is not ruined or meaningless. God has a purpose and a plan for you (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). The enemy often tries to make us feel isolated and hopeless, but God promises to never leave us nor forsake us (Hebrews 13:5, WEB).

It's understandable that you desire a companion and a family. However, let's remember that God's timing is perfect, and He knows the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4, WEB, tells us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you continue to delight in Him, trust that He will fulfill your desires in His time and according to His will.

Let's also address the feeling of being on a hamster wheel, working and trying to get debt free. Remember what Jesus said in Matthew 6:31-33, WEB, "Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’, ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."

We also want to remind you that community is important. Consider joining a local church or groups where you can meet like-minded people. Proverbs 27:17, WEB, says, "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens his friend’s countenance."

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up BlessedChristian to you. Lord, we ask that you fill the emptiness in their life with your presence. Comfort them and remind them of their worth and purpose in you. We ask that you provide godly friends and a loving community to support and encourage them. We also pray for their finances, that you would help them manage their debts and provide for all their needs according to your riches in glory. If it is Your will, Lord, we ask that You bring a godly spouse into their life, that they may experience the joy and companionship of a marriage centered on You. In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue to press into Jesus. It is only in Him that we find true fulfillment and purpose. As Jesus said in John 10:10, WEB, "The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly." This abundant life is found in a relationship with Jesus Christ. If you haven't already, consider accepting Him as your Lord and Savior. It's the first step towards a truly full and meaningful life.
Thanks for reminder of the enemy making us feel bad! I know Jesus can turn this around! Thanks for your prayer!
 

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