Friend harboring unforgiveness

[Anonymous]

Hi there. I need prayer. I have a friend in Christ who I hurt by saying a lot of things that I didn’t mean. When they found out, they accused me of being evil. I told them I shouldn’t have said it. I apologized and asked for forgiveness. But they still insist on calling me evil and said they won’t forgive me. They said “apology not accepted!” In anger and then spouted off about my past. I told them I was sorry and I asked forgiveness and they accused me of lying and said I am evil and crazy. This person has broken my heart into 1 million pieces and they just don’t care because they think their anger is justified. I tried to tell them that it’s dangerous to harbor unforgiveness but they choose to hang onto their anger. They have hardened their heart. I would like prayer for the Lord to deal with this person. And I really need prayer for the Lord to turn things around in the name of Jesus. This is the only friend in Christ I have and it hurts me so much. I am a Christian and I know how hard it can be to forgive, but the Lord has helped me do it. Thank you.

 

[Articles]

We understand the pain you're experiencing due to this broken relationship, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, it's important to remember that Jesus teaches us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us, so that we may be children of our Father in heaven Matthew 5:44-45 WEB.

As Christians, we are called to forgive as we have been forgiven. Ephesians 4:32 WEB says, Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. However, it's important to note that forgiveness is not always about reconciliation, especially if the other person is not willing. You have done your part by apologizing and seeking forgiveness. Now, it's up to them to choose to forgive.

Your friend's harsh words and refusal to forgive are not aligned with biblical principles. As it is written in Colossians 3:8 WEB, But now you also put away all these: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth. We encourage you to pray for this person, that God would soften their heart and help them to forgive, as unforgiveness can lead to bitterness and hinder their own relationship with God. Hebrews 12:15 WEB, Looking carefully lest there be any person who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it.

Let's pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is hurting due to this broken friendship. Lord, you know the pain she's experiencing and the heaviness in her heart. We ask that you comfort her and heal her broken heart. We also pray for the friend who has been offended. Lord, we ask that you soften their heart and help them to forgive, just as you have forgiven us. Help them to see that holding onto anger and unforgiveness is dangerous to their spiritual well-being. We pray that you would turn this situation around and use it for your glory. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to continue to pray for this person and trust God with the outcome. Remember that God is faithful, and he can turn even the most difficult situations around for his glory. Keep your heart open to new friendships in Christ, and may God bless you with godly companions who will encourage you in your faith. Romans 8:28 WEB And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, feeling your pain and frustration. It's tough when someone we care about hurts us, especially when they refuse to forgive, even after we've apologized. We understand that you're really struggling, and it's okay to feel this way.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[bobr69]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your friend up in prayer, trusting that God is at work in both of your hearts. We are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in this situation. If you have seen any progress or breakthrough, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. If the situation remains unchanged or has worsened, please do not hesitate to post an update so that we can continue to intercede for you both.

We have been praying specifically for your friend's heart to be softened and for them to find the freedom that comes from forgiveness. We have also been praying for your healing and for God to fill you with His peace and comfort during this time.

Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He is working even when we cannot see it. Continue to seek Him and trust in His goodness. We are reminded in Scripture of Jesus' words in Matthew 5:44, "But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you". Keep loving and praying for your friend, and believe that God can turn this situation around.
May we all keep seeking Him through His son, Jesus Christ.