Freedom from Persecution and prayers for my children

[Raerthirren]

I have a situation that I have been dealing with for a few years now, where my children’s father has a girlfriend who pushes herself into all of our communication regarding our kids. She’ll text for him with her opinion, she’ll tell him No you can’t do that, she says bad stuff about me, called me a psychopath, and that she’s going to try to take our kids. She tells him not to pay child support, and they get into big arguments while the children stay with him on his scheduled visitation. She tries to control our children and talks out loud about mom ‘Doesn’t know how to take care of her kids.” I have had full physical custody, for over 10 years, have paid their medical and at least 3/4 of their care expenses by myself Etc. Recently I bought them a phone so they can communicate with me when dad argues with GF so they will feel more comfortable when they are with them. I told them they didn’t have to tell him about it. Just to text if they need something or have an issue. Well dad found out he (my son), had his phone because he told the truth, when dad asked, which is good. I told them it was okay to tell him if he asked. But when my son 12, told him, he immediately took his phone away and the girlfriend took it and got in his face and said “TELL ME THE PASSWORD. And DON’T Lie.” He felt intimidated and afraid so he gave it to her. Then she proceeded to go through his whole phone, for hours, talking bad about me. And commenting on my messages to him, his friends, his sister etc. Then she went to our daughter and asked her for her phone, when my daughter said it was at mom’s house, she accused her of lying, then went into my daughter’s room at dad’s house, and went through all her stuff, her drawers threw stuff all around, and then tried to intimidate her again. I am just PRAYIMG for God to remove her. She is an EVIL SPIRIT. She told my son, “I can think of someone I’d like to shoot!” This was after my son showed her a tiny gun necklace he found on Amazon. My son took that as her wanting to shoot his mom (me), which has made me uncomfortable and also fearful of retaliation because I defend my children when she acts like this and I tell dad NOT to allow her to do that. My son also worries about that. I am at my wits end. The reason I did not want their father to know they have a phone is because when I bought little ones for them a few years back, she and he took them away but it really is about this GF. She has a very evil and negative influence and control over the kids father and it’s destroying me and the kids peace of mind. Please pray that the good Lord takes her out of the picture where she can be in an institution where she belongs. She took my kids out of school one day and wouldn’t let me know where she or they were. Thankfully dad finally did answer! I was about to call the police on her. HELP! PRAYERS for PROTECTION AND A SHEILD OVER MYSELF AND MY KIDS and FREEDOM from the chains I feel. Prayers for freedom and vindication, and Peace of Mind.

 

[Articles]

Dear Raerthirren, we hear your cry for help and are standing with you in prayer and support. We are deeply concerned about the emotional and mental abuse that you and your children are experiencing. We will pray for God's intervention and protection, and also provide biblical guidance for you.

Firstly, we want to remind you of God's promise: "Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." (Isaiah 41:10 WEB). God is with you and your children, and He will protect and deliver you from this distressing situation.

We want to address the issue of the boyfriend's girlfriend and her inappropriate behavior. It is clear that her actions are not aligned with biblical principles. The Bible tells us, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God also in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB). Her actions are not only harmful to you but also to your children and their father.

We will pray that God would convict her heart and bring her to repentance. If she does not repent, we pray that God would remove her from your lives. As it is written, "Remove the wicked from the king's presence, and his throne will be established in righteousness." (Proverbs 25:5 WEB).

We encourage you to continue standing firmly in your faith and to teach your children to do the same. Pray together as a family, and trust in God's protection. Remember the words of Jesus, "But if you suffer for being a Christian, don't be ashamed, but praise God for being called that name." (1 Peter 4:16 WEB).

Lastly, we want to remind you of the power of forgiveness. While it may be difficult, pray for the strength to forgive your children's father and his girlfriend for their actions. As it is written, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB).

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up our sister Raerthirren and her children. Lord, we ask for Your divine protection and intervention in their lives. Please remove the source of their distress, the boyfriend's girlfriend, and bring peace and harmony to their family. Convict her heart, Lord, and bring her to repentance. If she does not repent, we ask that You remove her from their lives.

Strengthen Raerthirren and her children, Lord, and help them to stand firmly in their faith. Guide them in the path of righteousness and surround them with Your loving kindness. Give Raerthirren the strength to forgive, just as You have forgiven her.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Stay strong in the Lord, Raerthirren. We are standing with you in prayer and support.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, dear friend. We've heard your cry for help and we're lifting you and your children up in prayer. It's tough, we know, dealing with someone who's causing so much emotional distress. We're praying for God's intervention, that He would remove this source of trouble from your lives. We're also asking for His protection over you and your kids, that He would shield you from further harm.

We're reminded of Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We trust that God is tending to your hearts, healing the hurts caused by this situation. We're also praying for wisdom for you, that you would know how to navigate this complex family dynamic.

We're here for you, not just in prayer, but also in support. If you need someone to talk to, to vent, or to bounce ideas off, we're your sisters and brothers in Christ. We're in this together. Keep trusting in God's love and care for you and your children. He sees you, He hears you, and He's working things out for your good.

 

[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.