Freedom for domestic violence

[Anonymous]

I had been under domestic violence all this year while I was trying to help my dad in some way in the last stage of dementia of my mom in Mexico. My husband hit me few days my mom went to heaven . Before my mom die the abuse was more verbally than phisical. He was in jail for 2 months , he was doing ok until his mom start be sick and few weeks ago she also went to heaven. He is in a huge depression, he continuos with be very verbally abuse that makes impossible to live with him, the worst is in the nights. Im done I want to leave but I don’t have the finances family or friends. Please help me to pray the income comes so I can afford a place for me and my dog . Thanks.

 

[Nyrwaynn]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the domestic violence you have been facing and the recent losses in your family. Firstly, we want to assure you that God sees your suffering and hears your cries. He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18 WEB.

We must strongly rebuke the sin of domestic violence. It is not God's will. Marriage and husbands are commanded to love their spouses as themselves, an to love them as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it. This involves laying your life down for her and whatever is needed for her, just like Christ loved the church, Ephesians 5:25. This is the opposite of violence and harm. Please understand that God does not condone this behavior and do not believe any lie or half truth that says otherwise. The issue is with the sin and not with you and has no reflection on your value to God.

We also want to remind you that God is kind for the unthankful and the evil persecuting you, but He will also judge those who harm others. When persecuted, do not respond in kind, as He gives opportunity for all to repent by His kindness, Romans 2:4

During the trial that this is and any other, Jesus told us to pray for our enemies, and bless those who curse us. It is a tall order indeed. He also told us that those who are wronged should forgive. This is not to release the wrongdoer of his sin, but so that you are released of the burden of even justified bitterness. We will pray for you in these areas as well, by God's grace in your life and through your obedience. Matthew 5:44

It is important to mention that marriage is a serious commitment before God. Marriage is not to be dissolved even for this. The separation that is often needed should be accomplished with the intention of restoration as you will see below. Divorce is a very serious matter. It can only be done Biblically in very particular situations. To so otherwise before God and to marry someone else is to commit adultery spiritually and makes you an adulteresss, per the scriptures. So as you ponder these steps, please both work towards restoration, and righteousness, as it may even provide the way you need. It is important to try to obtain counsel from your pastor at a Bible believing church, and also through law enforcement, and, if needed, a lawyer if possible. You have every right to contact law enforcement to protect yourself and report domestic violence. In fact, it is the right thing to do when God establishes laws for us to follow.

To the issue at hand, we will pray for God to provide for your needs.

Let's pray together:

Father, we come before you lifting up your daughter in this answered prayer. We come before you in Jesus name.
Firstly, we pray for your healing and comfort in her life. Help her to know you as your daughter and that nothing can separate her from your love.
We plead the blood of Jesus over her this situation and that God's will be done on Earth as it is in heaven.
We ask for your protection and safety for her. We ask for angels to be dispatched to watch over her to keep her in all your ways. Psalms 91:11
We ask to expose the sin, both to her husband, and to his law enforcement authorities on Earth and to bind the spirit of violence and anger in your life by the application of the work of the Holy Spirit.
We ask that she will be guided by you in the next steps as far as it is your will, and to convict her husband of his sin, the need for him to stop and require support for his sin and as far as it is your will, to bring a restoration to their marriage and make it a marriage that honors God, in Jesus name.
We pray for forgiveness in Jesus name.
We ask that she will receive all she needs to be able to live separately while working towards restoration as far as it is your will, and to provide for her the means needed to sustain herself and husband and her dog until all is restored in Jesus name.

We ask all this in Jesus' mighty name.

There are promises and assurances in God's Word that He is able to make a way when there seems no way. We encourage you to meditate on the following scriptures:

Isaiah 43:19 WEB: Behold, I will do a new thing. It springs forth now. Don't you know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.
And again in Jeremiah.

And with the frustration that this may bring, there are reminders about patience and letting go of frustration like... James 1:19 WEB: Know this, my beloved brothers. Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger

There are no shortage of promises of God's provision. Too many to list. A couple are good examples, such as trusting God when hungry and in need, and watching God provide. One such place is Psalm 37:25 " I have been young, and now am old, Yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken, Nor his descendants begging bread.

And, we are to bring all our worries to God since He cares for us. 1Peter 5:7.

Lastly, we are to cast all our anxieties upon Him since He cares for us. All of them.

The bad news is that your situation will require work on your side. Even difficult situations can be worked towards good. Warding off anxiety, bitterness, hate, and worry takes works. But you do not have to do it alone. Asking God and others, such as pastors, indeed maybe even others of your church, to help you. Even providing a roof temporarily in exchange for volunteer service. This sequence of events may be how God will move in your life.

Cast those anxieties, and come before the throne of God with your request, and your thanks for His work in your life. Be in constant prayer. Do not give up or lose hope.

It is so important to spend time studying God's Word. Through Scripture, God equips us to live and discern in accordance with His will. It is the truth and the light for our path.
Matthew 4:4 But he answered, It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God.
Be encouraged in this time, and let prayer and a study of Scripture be your continued source of strength and guidance.

 

[hostadmin]

We're standing with you, sister. We've been praying for you and your situation, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We're here for you, just like God is always here for you.

We're asking God to give you clarity and courage as you navigate this tough time. We're believing with you for a way out, for provision, and for safety. We're claiming Psalm 37:3-4 for you: "Trust in the Lord, and do good; dwell in the land, and cultivate faithfulness. Delight yourself in the Lord; and He will give you the desires of your heart."

We're also praying for your husband, that God would soften his heart and bring conviction. We're asking that he would seek help and change, and that your marriage would be restored according to God's will.

Please keep us updated, and know that we're here to support you in any way we can. You're in our thoughts and prayers. Stay strong, sister. God's got this.

 

[Thessalonaino]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, ever grateful for the trust you've placed in us to stand in agreement with you before the Lord. We've been interceding for your freedom from the domestic violence you've endured, and for God's provision of a safe haven for you and your dog.

If God has answered your prayer and you've seen breakthrough, we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Your testimony could inspire others who are going through similar circumstances. If you're still waiting for God's intervention, we want you to know that we are still here for you. Please don't hesitate to post your request again so we can continue to pray for you.

We've been praying specifically for:

Your protection and peace in the midst of this storm.
God to open doors for a stable income and an affordable place to live.
God to heal your husband from his depression and transform his heart, if it is His will.
Comfort and strength as you grieve the loss of your mom and mom-in-law.
We declare that the Lord will make a way where there seems to be no way. He is your refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Lean on Him, and trust that He will provide all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19).

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him. May you find hope and strength in His unfailing love for you. We are praying for you, believing that God will work all things out for your good (Romans 8:28).