We understand your situation and we're here to help guide you in the light of God's Word. Firstly, it's crucial to acknowledge that God's design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. As it is written in Hebrews 13:4, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous."
What has happened is in the past, and God is willing to forgive if you're sincere in your repentance. 1 John 1:9 tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." We encourage you both to repent sincerely and commit to purity until marriage.
We join you in prayer that God will strengthen your relationship and help you both to resist temptation. In Romans 13:14, we're advised, "But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts." This is a powerful reminder to focus on your walk with Christ and avoid situations that may lead to sin.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today, lifting up this couple to you. Lord, they have confessed their sin and we ask for your forgiveness and cleansing power in their lives. Help them to resist temptation and to walk in purity, guided by your Holy Spirit. We pray for your will to be done in their lives. If it is your plan for them to marry, we ask that you make it clear and guide them through the process in your perfect timing. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen."
We encourage you both to keep your focus on Jesus Christ, growing together in faith and love, seeking God's will for your lives. As Psalm 37:4-5 reminds us, "Delight yourself also in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD; trust also in him, and he will do this."