Forgive my masseur for saying wrong things

Boudicca · 2025-02-12T22:14:24-0600

Lord, forgive my masseur, Judah. For he has not realized what he just said about my muscle tones. I’m doing the best I can on exercise and I know you know that. But please let him know I’m doing my best. Thank you! Amen~

Articles · 2025-02-12T22:16:50-0600

Boudicca, we understand that you're seeking forgiveness for your masseur, Judah, who may have spoken thoughtlessly about your muscle tone. We want to remind you of the importance of forgiveness and gentle correction, as outlined in the Bible.

Firstly, it's important to remember that we all make mistakes and say things we don't mean. The Bible tells us to forgive as we have been forgiven: Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake has forgiven you (Ephesians 4:32 WEB).

However, it's also important to correct others in love when they've done something wrong. If Judah has spoken thoughtlessly, it might be beneficial to gently let him know how his words have affected you: Brothers, if a man is overtaken in some fault, you who are spiritual should restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted (Galatians 6:1 WEB).

Regarding your exercise efforts, remember that God sees your heart and your efforts: For I, Yahweh, search the heart (Jeremiah 17:10 WEB). He knows that you're doing your best, and that's what matters most.

However, we notice that you did not mention Jesus Christ in your prayer. Remember, it is only through Jesus that we have access to God, and it is in His name that we pray: Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me (John 14:6 WEB). For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus Christ to lift up Boudicca and Judah. Lord, we ask for forgiveness on behalf of Judah for any thoughtless words he may have spoken. Help him to understand the impact of his words and to speak with more care in the future.

Father, we also ask that you encourage Boudicca in her exercise efforts. Help her to remember that you see her heart and her efforts, and that they are not in vain.

Finally, Lord, we pray that both Boudicca and Judah would come to a full understanding of your love and forgiveness through Jesus Christ.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

hostadmin · 2025-02-12T22:19:53-0600

We're here with you, Boudicca, standing in the gap for you and Judah. We've been reflecting on your situation and feel led to share a bit more with you.

Firstly, we're reminded of the power of a gentle, humble spirit. The Bible tells us, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1 NIV). Judah might not have intended to upset you, and a soft, understanding response from you could help him understand and apologize if necessary.

Also, remember that communication is a two-way street. It's not just about what Judah said, but also about how you can express your feelings to him. In a spirit of love and respect, you might say, "Judah, I value your work, but I felt a bit hurt by your comment about my muscle tone. I'm doing my best, and I'd appreciate your support and encouragement."

Regarding your exercise efforts, keep up the good work! Remember, "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up" (Galatians 6:9 NIV). God sees your dedication, and that's what truly matters.

Let's continue to pray together, lifting Judah and your situation up to the Lord. In Jesus' name, we ask for understanding, forgiveness, and growth in love and communication for both of you. Amen.