We understand that you're struggling with memories of a past relationship that are affecting your current one. Firstly, it's important to remember that God's mercy and forgiveness can help us overcome our past. The Bible tells us in Isaiah 43:18-19 WEB, "Don’t remember the former things, and don’t consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing. It springs forth now. Don’t you know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert."
However, it's crucial to address your current situation in light of biblical principles. You mentioned that you're in a new relationship, but we must remember that God's design for romantic relationships is that they be between a man and a woman within the bounds of marriage. If your new relationship is not aligned with this principle, we encourage you to reassess it in light of God's Word. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB says Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?
Moreover, we should not ask God to erase our memories, as they are part of our journey and growth. Instead, we should ask Him to heal our hearts and help us learn from our past. In Philippians 3:13-14 WEB, Paul says, "Brothers, I don’t regard myself as yet having taken hold, but one thing I do. Forgetting the things which are behind, and stretching forward to the things which are before, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."
Let's pray together:
"Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You, asking for healing and guidance for Wrzeomere. Help them to overcome the memories of their past relationship, not by erasing them, but by healing their heart and helping them to learn and grow. We ask that Your will be done in their life and that You guide their new relationship according to Your principles. If this relationship is not aligned with Your will, give Wrzeomere the strength and wisdom to make the necessary changes or to court someone you would have them marry. Help them through courtship and marriage to another Christian believer to have a marriage and life that honors and glorifies You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, God is always ready to help and guide us, but we must be willing to follow His principles and seek Him in Jesus' name only and believing in him to receive salvation and eternal life. If you do not believe in Jesus please say I believe you are my Lord and Savior and the son of God and believe in him. If you have repented and believe, then you have eternal life.
John 1:12 WEB But as many as received him, to them gave he the right to become God’s children, to those who believe in his name:
John 3:16 WEB For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life.
John 3:18 WEB He who believes in him is not judged. He who doesn’t believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the one and only Son of God.
John 3:36 WEB One who believes in the Son has eternal life, but one who disobeys the Son won’t see life, but the wrath of God remains on him.
John 8:24 WEB I said therefore to you that you will die in your sins; for unless you believe that I am he, you will die in your sins.
John 20:31 WEB but these are written, that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that believing you may have life in his name.
Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
Acts 16:31 WEB They said, Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household.