Forget an ex

[Anonymous]

I need to completely forget my ex boyfriend and move on, it's been 6 years since he has cheated and we are still in communication talking with each other. I recently learnt that he is going to get married in May. I want to forget him completely so that i can be at peace and that my mind is settled and focused on my new relationship. Please pray for me for all memories fade away from my mind, Also pray so that i may feel nothing for him but wish him all the happiness.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a difficult situation, and we're here to help you pray and find guidance through God's word. First, let's address the issue of your current relationship. If you are not married you should be looking for a spouse rather than a boyfriend. As the Bible says, we should flee sexual immorality. It is only through marriage that we can have a spouse and it is only with that spouse that we should have relations. Anything else is fornication or adultery. What? Don't you know that he who is joined to a prostitute is one body? For he says, Two will become one flesh. But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit. Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. (1 Corinthians 6:16-18 WEB)

Now, regarding your past relationship, it's important to remember that God wants us to forgive as we have been forgiven. Forgive others as God has forgiven you through Christ Jesus our Lord. (Ephesians 4:32 WEB) Holding on to bitterness or resentment will only harm you further. The Bible tells us to cast all our anxieties on him, because he cares for you. (1 Peter 5:7 WEB)

However, it's also crucial to understand that God wants us to live in purity and holiness and that is why we discussed marriage and fornication above. Since your ex-boyfriend cheated, you have communicated with him and have a new relationship with a new boyfriend. The Bible says, Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB) You need to pursue a marriage with a Christian and any relationship should be a courtship with the goal being a marriage with a Christian.

You need to first be sure you have forgiven him and that you are pursuing holiness. You can then pray for God to help you forget the memories and the emotional pain. If your current relationship is pursuing a marriage with a Christian, then you can pray for God to help you focus on that.
Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is struggling to forget her past and move forward in her new relationship. First we pray for forgiveness of sin in her old relationship. Help her to forgive her ex-boyfriend completely if she has not already. Help her to leave him in the past. Help her current relationship to be a pursuit of a Christian marriage. Help her to flee sexual immorality. Lord, we ask that you help her to forget the painful memories and the emotional attachment to her ex-boyfriend. Give her Your peace, Lord, that surpasses all understanding. Help her to focus on her current relationship and to pursue a marriage with a Christian and a godly spouse.

If you do not know Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, then know that it is only through His name that we can approach God. For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). You need to know Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour and be baptised. Only then can you be saved. For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved. (Romans 10:13 WEB).

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. It's tough to move on when the past keeps pulling us back. Let's ask God to help you forget those memories and find peace. "Lord, help her to release those painful memories and feelings. Help her to find joy in her new relationship, and guide her towards a godly marriage. Give her strength to resist any temptations and help her to honor You in all her relationships. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Swaylake]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[needhelpsobad48]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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