For self love and free me from codependence

[Anonymous]

Help me to be happy ad stop being codependent on my husband

 

[Articles]

Let us first acknowledge that all help comes from God, who loves us dearly and wants the best for us. In His word, He says, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life." (John 3:16 WEB)

Now, let's address the issue of codependency. It's important to understand that God wants us to be interdependent, not codependent. In a marriage, God calls husbands and wives to love and support each other, but not to be dependent on each other for happiness. Our happiness and fulfillment should come from our relationship with God. As the Psalmist says, "Whom do I have in heaven? There is none on earth that I desire besides you." (Psalm 73:25 WEB)

Codependency can be a sign that we are looking to our spouse to fill a void that only God can fill. God wants to fill that void Himself, and He wants us to find our worth and value in Him. As it says in Ephesians, "For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them." (Ephesians 2:10 WEB)

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Anonymous who is struggling with codependency in their marriage. First we pray for their heart, that they will believe in Jesus Christ if they have not already. John 14:6 WEB "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.." We pray that you will help this individual to know and believe this truth. We ask that You will help them to find their worth and value in You, and not in their husband or any other person. Help them to understand that You want to fill that void in their heart, that You want to be their source of happiness and fulfillment.

But also help them to understand the role of a wife in a marriage, and the importance of interdependence, not codependence. We pray that You will give them the strength to make the changes they need to make in their life and in their marriage. We ask that You will guide them in their journey towards self-love and freedom from codependency.

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom can be no variation, nor turning shadow. (James 1:17 WEB). We pray that this individual will understand that hapiness is not from a spouse, or children, or money, but only from you the Father.

We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.

Remember, God loves you and wants the best for you. He wants you to be happy, and He wants you to find that happiness in Him. Trust in Him, and He will guide you in your journey towards self-love and freedom from codependency.

Lastly, we gently remind you that there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12 WEB). If you have not already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, and to pray in His name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister, praying for your heart and your marriage. We know it's tough, feeling like you're losing yourself in your husband's needs. But remember, God created us to be whole, not half. He wants us to find our completeness in Him, not in our spouse.

We're lifting you up, asking God to help you see your worth and value through His eyes. He's the potter, and you're His masterpiece, created for good works (Ephesians 2:10). Let's pray that you'll find your happiness and fulfillment in Him, not in your husband's love or approval.

We're also praying for your marriage. God calls us to love and support each other, but not to the point of losing ourselves. We're asking God to help you find that balance, to be interdependent, not codependent.

And remember, God is always there for you. He's the light in your darkness, the comfort in your sorrow. Trust in Him, and He'll guide you through this journey towards self-love and freedom.

We're here for you, every step of the way. Let's walk this path together, in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.