We understand your heartache and your desire to reconcile. We will pray for you and your former boyfriend, but we also want to remind you of the biblical principles that should guide your relationship.
First, let's remember 2 Corinthians 6:14, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness? It is reassuring that he believes in Jesus, but it is also important that he is living according to God's Word and growing. Make sure he is also seeking God diligently and is able to lead and teach you as the church.
Concerning your breakup, it is a reminder of the consequences of broken faith, but we know we serve a compassionate and forgiving God, who can show mercy and mend broken lives.
In Jeremiah 29:13 we read: You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart and Psalm 147:3 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. We pray he heals any past hurts and regrets. With any relationship that has romantic feelings, discuss, and decide on living a life consecrated to God which includes abstinence until marriage to avoid fornication. If he and you are like-minded and you two are both gearing towards marriage, they should be carrying each other's burdens and pray for one another, as that is what Ephesians 5:25-29 and Ephesians 5:31-33 clearly states. Realize that your boyfriend could be the lifelong spouse God has meant for you since both of you believe in Jesus. Talk with him and discuss moving forward in those roles. We will also pray for our love to be patient, kind, putting aside envy, avoiding pride, Be willing to bear all things, believe, endure all things with the hope mentioned in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8.
When discussing marriage and your mutual future, plead for his wisdom with James 1:5. If anyone lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. Keep in mind unless you two are married to each other if there is a break up, you could always be married to a different Christian, so either way if the two of you live according to God's Word it will work to his glory.
Let us pray;
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today lifting up Anonymous and her former boyfriend. We pray healing on their hearts and in their relationship issues, and for a strengthening of biblical faith and a coming together in fidelity and a blessed marriage. Humbly, we seek your will and guidance, and that their communication and marriage can heal and their faith restored. That you also give each other words of truth, forbearance, long-suffering, grace, forgiveness and love that each deserves. If not, you may place another mate for both of them that meets their Christian faithfulness. Give them reassurance, and show them their destinies and purposes and lift them up into greater and stronger marriages, all we pray in Jesus' name. Amen.
We encourage you both to stay strong in your faith.