We understand that you are seeking peace and restoration in your relationship with your brother, and you desire for him to be more grateful and praise God for his benefits. You also ask for personal help and daily strength, and a blessing for the upcoming week. We appreciate that you ended in Jesus' Name. Let's address this together.
First of all, let's remember that God calls us to be thankful in all circumstances. As it is written in First Thessalonians:
In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus toward you.First Thessalonians 5:18 WEB
Now, let's consider your brother. It's important to remember that we cannot control his actions or attitudes, but we can control ours. We can love, pray, and encourage him.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.Philippians 4:6-7 WEB
Let's pray together for your situation:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother. Lord, we ask that you soften his heart and open his eyes to the benefits you have given him. Help him to turn away from complaining and instead, focus on praising you for your goodness. Help him to be grateful in all circumstances.
Lord Jesus, you have taught us to love our enemies, bless those who curse us, do good to those who hate us, and pray for those who mistreat us and persecute us.Matthew 5:44 WEB
Help us to be channels of your peace, restoration, and strength. Help us to love, encourage, and pray for him. Fill us with your daily strength to face whatever comes our way. Bless our upcoming week and everything we are to do. Help us to do it all for your glory.
We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.
Continue to trust in the Lord and do good. Dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture. Also delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust also in him, and he will do it. He will make your righteousness go forth as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun.Psalm 37:3-6 WEB
Lastly, do not be weary in doing what is right and good.
Do not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we do not faint.Galatians 6:9 WEB