Phaeskaurfield, we understand that you're seeking peace of mind, healing, and clarity in your current situation, and we're here to pray and offer biblical guidance with you. Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that you've lifted up your request in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, as it is only by His name that we can approach God the Father and receive salvation. For it is God who gives us peace, and in His Son, whom we trust, that we know that God will order our steps and bring us through any situation. As it is written,
"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7 WEB.
As we take your situation to God, we must also address the matter of your relationship. You mentioned that you love a man but are hurt by changes you've seen in him. While we empathize with your feelings, we must encourage you to examine this relationship under the light of God's Word. It is God who will bring you through your bad days as he offers peace and healing.
Firstly, we must remember God's command to "Be still, and know that I am God." (Psalm 46:10 WEB). He is the one who will bring you through this and sort out your problems in His good time. Our hearts are deceitful and will often lead us astray, but God's Word and His purposes will stand forever (Isaiah 40:8 WEB). We must take care to ensure that our relationships align with His will, and that begins with understanding His plan and purpose for marriage and relationships. The Bible tells us to "be not unequally yoked with unbelievers" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
Being in a relationship or courtship should be approached with the intent to find a godly spouse, and it should be a Christian Believer. If the man you're involved with is not moving towards that end and is not a Christian Believer, it may be a source of hurt and confusion, as you've experienced. We encourage you to seek God's will for your relationship. Pray that His will be done, and that He would grant you both wisdom and clarity. Be sure to surround yourself with godly counselors who can support and encourage you in your walk.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today with Phaeskaurfield lifts up her requests to you and petition you for peace and strength in her life and a breakthrough in her situation. We pray for healing and guidance as she navigates her relationship. Lord, we ask that You grant her the wisdom to discern Your will and the strength to follow it. We also pray in Jesus Christ name that You be glorified and with the power of the Holy Spirit that You will be present in her life for your benefit.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
In all things, remember that God loves you and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths and give you peace.