Anonymous
Beloved of All
For my tias and my mom stop meddling in people's life. May they stop controlling their adult children and acting like they are their property along with their kids. May all of the adult kids be respected in their own individuality and may the tias and my mom stop gossiping about us, making false rumors and lies to make themselves look good while they abuse us behind closed doors because it is how they have kept the family running for years. May we be able to escape from the abuse and may the tias and my mom heal and receive the help they need in order to not be treating us like that anymore. May they stop supporting each other to remain in their echo chamber where they tell each other that their mistreatments are a good thing, their control over our lives, finances, baby's, etc. May they learn that we need our independence and for our lives to be respected. Our partner's and kids deserve respect, a long with our choices. We need to leave our houses and build our own families. Not stay stuck, controlled, without the ability to do anything for ourselves because of how they limit us and support each other in doing that. For us to be able to have peace from their traumatized behaviored towards us. It is not our job to heal them, or to deal with their mistreatment because it's the only thing that makes sense to them.