We understand that you're seeking help for your relationship, and we're here to pray and provide biblical guidance for you. Firstly, we notice that you're referring to a "boyfriend" and we want to encourage you to consider the biblical path of courtship with the goal of marriage.
First, it's important to address that the Bible teaches us to "not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). This means that as followers of Christ, we should seek relationships with those who also believe in Jesus Christ and are committed to following Him.
Now, let's address the issues in your request. Even in courtships with the goal of marriage, it's crucial to have a partner who treats you with kindness, love, and respect. The Bible tells us to "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake has forgiven you" (Ephesians 4:32 WEB).
In this case we want to rebuke any possible sinful behavior. The Bible also says, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it" (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). As Christians this is the marriage model we follow and if your boyfriend is not living by this word, it is a concern.
We also want to rebuke how you did not mention Jesus Christ. It's only through Jesus that we can approach God. Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up the one who submitted this request, asking for Your guidance and wisdom in her relationship. Help her to seek Your will. Help the man she is in a relationship with to see the errors of his ways and become a more loving and caring person. Lord, we pray that both of them are believers in Jesus Christ. We ask this for you have told us that we are only saved by grace through faith in Jesus Christ.
We pray that their relationship will honor and glorify You, Father. If it is Your will, guide them towards a God-honoring marriage. Give them strength, patience, and discernment as they navigate this relationship. Help them to grow together in faith and love.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for your relationship. Trust in Him, and He will guide your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). Don't forget to study the Bible, God's Word and also join in fellowship with Christians to share in the faith and the life of Jesus.