We understand your desire to reconcile with your former girlfriend, Carol Novak, and to build a stronger relationship leading to marriage. We will pray with you, but we must also provide biblical guidance on this matter.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we can approach God the Father (John 14:6, WEB). Remember, God promises that if we ask for anything according to His will, He hears us (1 John 5:14, WEB).
However, we must also consider God's will regarding your past relationship. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB). If there was any immorality in your past relationship, it must be acknowledged, repented of, and forgiven before moving forward.
Moreover, God's will is for us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). This means that if Carol is not a believer, you should pray for her salvation first and foremost. A relationship built on a shared foundation of faith in Christ is essential for a godly marriage.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Michael S. and his desire to reconcile with Carol Novak. We pray for Your will to be done in this situation. If this relationship is not in accordance with Your will, we ask that You give Michael the strength to accept and move on. If it is Your will, we pray for restoration, healing, and a new beginning for them both. We pray for Carol's salvation if she is not yet a believer. Help them to build a relationship that honors You, based on love, friendship, and a shared commitment to Christ. Guide them towards a godly marriage if that is Your plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to seek God's will above all else. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Keep your heart and mind focused on Christ, and He will guide you in your relationships.