for me to have a boyfriend

[Anonymous]

it is time for me to find an official and committed boyfriend i have never had one and im almost 50 years old God would now want me to lead a loveless existence it is time...thank you

 

[Articles]

We understand your longing for companionship and love, but we want to guide you according to biblical principles and encourage you to adjust your prayer request around Marriage. The Bible tells us that "God is love" (1 John 4:8 WEB), and He cares deeply about our desires and needs. However, it's important to approach this subject in a way that honors God and aligns with His word.

First, let's consider the term "boyfriend." In the Bible we see courtship for the purpose of marriage, we do not see boyfriends or girlfriends. Biblical relationships are focused on marriage, and all that you seek should be towards finding a godly Christian man to be your husband. This begins with courtship where you seek to help each other strengthen each others faith and learn about each other. However, we must remember that God's design for marriage is between a man and a woman (Genesis 2:24 WEB), and that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage (1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB). Also, this relationship should be only with and Christian.

It's also crucial to remember that God's timing is perfect. You mentioned that you're almost 50 years old and have never had a boyfriend, but God may have protected you from relationships that were not His best for you. Trust that He knows the desires of your heart and has a plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). God honors marriage to honor God, You should never think of marriage or courtship like the world does. Remember, that it is only in the name of Jesus that we can be saved and have an eternal relationship with God.

Instead of focusing on finding a boyfriend please adjust pray for this to finding a courtship towards marriage, let's pray for God's will in your life and for Him to prepare you for a godly marriage if that's His plan for you. Here's a prayer based on your request:

Dear Heavenly Father, we came to you today and ask You to reveal Your will and guide our sister in Jesus. Father God, if it aligns with your will, we pray that you would begin a courtship with a godly Christian husband towards marriage. We pray that you would continue to strengthen and comfort her. Father God we ask that each of us would stay in the Word and improved our relationship with you and that we would stay ready and pray about your will in courtship and marriage. Always remembering the teaching of Paul and Moses one man and one woman for a lifetime. If it be Your will, prepare her for a godly marriage, in which she can honor and serve You alongside her husband. Help her to trust in Your timing and to never compromise her faith or values. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen and continue to renew Your mind with what is good and acceptable and perfect and that we can understand all things that are good and be obedient to You.

We will pray for God's will and that you will keep your prayer and mind in the word, in Jesus' name and that God will bless you with a husband. Remember that Jesus is the most important relationship in your life and that if marriage be in God's will, God will bless you with a husband instead of thinking about boyfriends. Never think of marriage as the world does, and that is a courtship to one man. Further to help you further your understanding, a verse to consider is Hebrews 13:4 (WEB), "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."

Remember looking for a marriage partner begins with courtship towards marriage.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister, praying for your heart's desire. We understand the longing for companionship, but let's approach this with a heart that seeks God's will above all. Instead of a boyfriend, let's pray for a courtship that leads towards marriage, if that's God's plan for you.

Remember, God's timing is perfect. He may have protected you from relationships that weren't His best for you. Trust that He knows the desires of your heart and has a plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11). Let's pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to you today, asking for your guidance and will in our sister's life. Father, if it aligns with your will, we pray that you would begin a courtship with a godly Christian man, towards marriage. Help her to trust in your timing and never compromise her faith or values. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen."

Let's keep our minds renewed with what's good, acceptable, and perfect, understanding all things that are good, and being obedient to God. Jesus is the most important relationship in your life, and if marriage is in God's will, He will bless you with a husband. Let's keep our prayers and minds in the Word, trusting that God will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6).

 

[Nyrwaynn]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Powers]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray with you regarding your desire for a committed boyfriend. We are honored that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in this matter. If God has blessed you with a partner, please share your praise report with us, as it will be a testament of God's faithfulness and encouragement for others.

If you are still waiting, please know that we are here to continue praying with you. Sometimes, God's timing is different from ours, but He is always working behind the scenes. Remember, God loves you deeply and has a unique plan for your life. His plans are to give you a hope and a future.

Please post an update if you feel led to do so, and let us know how we can continue to support you in prayer. May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him and trust in His goodness through Jesus Christ. We are praying for God's will to be done in your life and for His peace to fill your heart.