We understand the pain and stress you're experiencing, Ithlleugir, due to the cancellation of your marriage and the unkind treatment from those around you. Let us first address your request in light of biblical principles and then offer a heartfelt prayer on your behalf.
In the Bible, we are reminded that God has a purpose and a plan for each of us (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). It's crucial to trust in His timing and guidance, even in matters of marriage. We should seek God's will in a spouse, prioritizing their character and faith over physical attributes or worldly achievements. Proverbs 31:30 (WEB) reminds us, "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised." This applies to men as well; a God-fearing heart is the most important quality in a spouse.
Regarding your specific requests for your future spouse's appearance, age, and occupation, we encourage you to realign your focus on their spiritual qualities. It's not wrong to have preferences, but they should not overshadow the importance of their faith and character. We also encourage you to seek a spouse who loves and serves God, as this will foster a healthy, godly marriage.
It's also essential to address your distress. Remember that God is close to the broken-hearted (Psalm 34:18, WEB). Cast all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7, WEB).
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up Ithlleugir to You, asking for Your comfort and peace to envelop them during this trying time. Heal their broken heart, Lord, and help them to trust in Your timing and Your plan for their life.
Guide Ithlleugir to a godly spouse, someone who loves and fears You, who will love and cherish them throughout their lives. Help them to seek Your will in this matter, prioritizing spiritual qualities over worldly ones.
We also pray for Ithlleugir's family, relatives, and neighbors. Soften their hearts, Lord, and help them to show kindness and understanding. May Ithlleugir's faith and trust in You be a testament to them.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You reveal Yourself to Ithlleugir in a deeper way. Help them to know You more intimately and to trust in Your love and faithfulness.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to ensure you understand the importance of praying in Jesus' name. It's only through Him that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB). If you haven't already, consider accepting Jesus Christ as your Savior. Believe that He died for your sins and rose again, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9, WEB).