Iarasik, we join you in prayer for God's will to be done in your life and for Him to guide your steps in this important matter. We commend you for your desire to be married to a believer and we will pray about this together. Marriage is a blessed institution ordained by God, and it is wonderful that you aspire to be united with a fellow Christian. It is important that the man you love is your husband and has committed to you and you to him. The scripture tells us, The wife doesn't have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise also the husband doesn't have authority over his own body, but the wife. Thus sexual relations are to be confined to marriage. Let's seek God's will together. We find that scripture teaches The unmarried man is anxious for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but the married man is anxious for the things of the world, how he may please his wife. There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin.
We must address a couple of things in your requests. First we notice you have not mentioned Jesus Christ, Jesus, Christ, or even God the Father in your request. It is only through faith in Jesus Christ we have access to God and it is only by His name can one be saved. Jesus saith unto him. It is important to assure that the person you desire to marry is a Christian and believing in Jesus Christ before marriage. It is also common for one thinking they know who they are going to marry to ask God to bring them together. While this is fine, one must be open to God telling them no in this regard. The scripture teaches, WEB. Furthermore, He explains Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? Thus it is important for a Christian to marry another Christian and not an unbeliever. Thus for us it is more important to pray for this man to become a believer and has committed to Jesus Christ and not worry about marriage until it is confirmed he is a believer and no longer worry about the marriage until you two are committed to each other. We are to be if the Lord wills in all matters. We are to give of thanks at all times according to the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. Thus we will pray and hope for you to become committed and by doing so you will flee from sexual immorality.
Join us in praying,
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister ###. We pray that You would reveal Your will for her life, especially concerning marriage. We ask, Lord, that You would work in the heart of the man she loves, that he may come to know Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior believing and trusting in Jesus Christ. We ask Lord that no further romantic relationship take place until they are in full agreement that they are to be married and are committed to each other. We ask that their full agreement come only after they are committed to Jesus Christ. We pray that Your perfect will be done and that You would guide them both according to Your wisdom and timing. We ask that their love may blossom at the right time and glorify you becoming a committed godly couple moving toward marriage. We rebuke any spiritual and emotional ties that maybe unholy and sinful. We ask and trust this prayer aligns with your will. We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ.
